"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
How to reject fat girls (Serious responses only PLEASE!)
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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HeyPachuco!
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Bring large can of DIET COKE,this is effective and sufficient way of exterminating any further fat trouble.
Nah seriously,just say you're not available, I mean how hard isit?
Same applies for any other female you're not attracted to who keeps bugging you,not just fatties.
Bible_Belt
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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So, unless her friends are really worth it, I would just ignore her, keeping looking away while she talks, start other convos while she s talking to you, etc and most will get the point.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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It's not like a money thing... it's like a job.
Imagine putting your resume into a job application website, and receiving offers from companies to do work for which you are extremely overqualified. You'd laugh at those offers and you may even be insulted that a company thought that the particular job being offered was an appropriate valuation of experiences and skills. In the same way, when a fat chick hits on me, I feel flattered that she wanted my nuts, but I feel insulted that she thought she could get them.
I just don't return any flirting and flattery, but I remain friendly and personable. They have to be idiots to not know when a guy is clearly being polite versus interested.
The point wasn't to equate money with fat girls, the point was to show his statement defies logic as he is trying to build up his own ego by telling us fat girls hit on him everywhere and anywhere he goes and it doesn't make sense. It means he gets hit on 24-7 by fat girls, when he goes to washroom, to work, to school, grocery shopping, on the train, in the classroom, where ever. So when he asks "I want to know what I can say to a fat girl so she'll stop hitting on me and never bother me again for the rest of my life." he can insult, put her down, spit in her face and or hit her, then she won't bother him. But when he tells us he is so attractive that no matter what he does the fat girl is smitten, it defies logic.Duffdog said:
I don't think it's that easy to go for a fat girl's in-shape friends. If their friends know that the fat girl has a crush on me they might be more inclined to reject me because they don't want to go for a guy their friend is obsessed with.Bible_Belt said:
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Men are like that, but not women. Men will usually follow a 'bros before hos' mentality. Women are catty b!tches who always want to have the man their friends want. It might not happen that night if they are out together, but doing a girl's friends is usually not that difficult. This is all aside from the topic of fat girls, but it works with them, too. A lot of women don't see fat girls as being quite as undesirable as themselves, due to their own low self-esteem, which is why they would find validation in stealing even a fat girl's man.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
there was a fat girl at work a heffer any way i kept flirting. she went to a nother building came back one for a meeting at our office walked past our room saw me(from the door can only see the person on the front desk) come bundling into the room with how are you been missing you what not looks up sees my colleagues looking goes red runs out. as i act coldly towards her and my colleagus howl with laughter
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Agreed. Just pull a card out the female deck and say you have a girlfriend or are already seeing someone. Problem solved, right? Had to do that yesterday when a 50something hit on me. Just blatant and forward. I just told her I'm flattered, but I'm already seeing someone. Never mind the fact I was backing away slowly and creeped out like mad because it was like getting hit on by my mom or something...HeyPachuco! said:
You have to reek of "niceguy" in order for a fat girl to "woman up" and talk to you. This is because they have less fear of being put down. You think they are going to be approaching the jerk that will tell them to f___ off? they only approach guys they either see as feminine/weak/nice that they think are not as high up from their level.
For the sake of your reputation never be seen talking to a fattie...unless she is hanging around with 2 of her hot friends then I wouldn't mind saying hi to her in order to get an introduction to her pals
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I could not disagree more. If some fine breezy saw me huggin on a fat b1tch shes gonna be like "ew whats wrong with him" or "that must be a family member". Not "oh god hes sexy and sweet cuz he hugged my troll friend i want his nuts omgz"
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.