"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How to reject fat girls (Serious responses only PLEASE!)

Demystify

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f283000 said:
fat girls approaching you = you look too much like a nice guy, reek of "niceguy" etc etc.

You have to reek of "niceguy" in order for a fat girl to "woman up" and talk to you. This is because they have less fear of being put down. You think they are going to be approaching the jerk that will tell them to f___ off? they only approach guys they either see as feminine/weak/nice that they think are not as high up from their level.

For the sake of your reputation never be seen talking to a fattie...unless she is hanging around with 2 of her hot friends then I wouldn't mind saying hi to her in order to get an introduction to her pals ;)
Most helpful post in the thread, but how do I be the jerk and tell the fat girl to f off or do I actually say "f___ off"';
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Demystify said:
Most helpful post in the thread, but how do I be the jerk and tell the fat girl to f off or do I actually say "f___ off"';
Wow, if a girl you wanted to have sex with said that to you, you would come back here and scream at us and say all girls should go to hell and they are worthless bvtches

You should politely decline the invitation if you are not interested in a girl, fat or non fat.
 

Demystify

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DonJuan11 said:
Wow, if a girl you wanted to have sex with said that to you
Girls already say that kind of stuff to me and on top of that fat girls like me and won't stop borrowing me, which is a double negative.
 

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Well I think biblebelts advice is dead on. But it won't work if you are with all the girls short term ie. meet the group in a bar and need an SNL. Flirting with the fat girl will get you rep points with the girls, but only if you know you'll see them again.

You're telling us alot about what you DON'T want...but what DO you want. That is key. You can easily ignore the fat girls advances if you have another girl you are focusing on gaming. That is the key to ignoring people, having your mind occupied by something else. You don't have to be a **** because you're busy going after other better looking girls.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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