"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
How to reject fat girls (Serious responses only PLEASE!)
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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HeyPachuco!
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Bring large can of DIET COKE,this is effective and sufficient way of exterminating any further fat trouble.
Nah seriously,just say you're not available, I mean how hard isit?
Same applies for any other female you're not attracted to who keeps bugging you,not just fatties.
Bible_Belt
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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So, unless her friends are really worth it, I would just ignore her, keeping looking away while she talks, start other convos while she s talking to you, etc and most will get the point.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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It's not like a money thing... it's like a job.
Imagine putting your resume into a job application website, and receiving offers from companies to do work for which you are extremely overqualified. You'd laugh at those offers and you may even be insulted that a company thought that the particular job being offered was an appropriate valuation of experiences and skills. In the same way, when a fat chick hits on me, I feel flattered that she wanted my nuts, but I feel insulted that she thought she could get them.
I just don't return any flirting and flattery, but I remain friendly and personable. They have to be idiots to not know when a guy is clearly being polite versus interested.
The point wasn't to equate money with fat girls, the point was to show his statement defies logic as he is trying to build up his own ego by telling us fat girls hit on him everywhere and anywhere he goes and it doesn't make sense. It means he gets hit on 24-7 by fat girls, when he goes to washroom, to work, to school, grocery shopping, on the train, in the classroom, where ever. So when he asks "I want to know what I can say to a fat girl so she'll stop hitting on me and never bother me again for the rest of my life." he can insult, put her down, spit in her face and or hit her, then she won't bother him. But when he tells us he is so attractive that no matter what he does the fat girl is smitten, it defies logic.Duffdog said:
I don't think it's that easy to go for a fat girl's in-shape friends. If their friends know that the fat girl has a crush on me they might be more inclined to reject me because they don't want to go for a guy their friend is obsessed with.Bible_Belt said:
Bible_Belt
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Men are like that, but not women. Men will usually follow a 'bros before hos' mentality. Women are catty b!tches who always want to have the man their friends want. It might not happen that night if they are out together, but doing a girl's friends is usually not that difficult. This is all aside from the topic of fat girls, but it works with them, too. A lot of women don't see fat girls as being quite as undesirable as themselves, due to their own low self-esteem, which is why they would find validation in stealing even a fat girl's man.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
there was a fat girl at work a heffer any way i kept flirting. she went to a nother building came back one for a meeting at our office walked past our room saw me(from the door can only see the person on the front desk) come bundling into the room with how are you been missing you what not looks up sees my colleagues looking goes red runs out. as i act coldly towards her and my colleagus howl with laughter
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Agreed. Just pull a card out the female deck and say you have a girlfriend or are already seeing someone. Problem solved, right? Had to do that yesterday when a 50something hit on me. Just blatant and forward. I just told her I'm flattered, but I'm already seeing someone. Never mind the fact I was backing away slowly and creeped out like mad because it was like getting hit on by my mom or something...HeyPachuco! said:
You have to reek of "niceguy" in order for a fat girl to "woman up" and talk to you. This is because they have less fear of being put down. You think they are going to be approaching the jerk that will tell them to f___ off? they only approach guys they either see as feminine/weak/nice that they think are not as high up from their level.
For the sake of your reputation never be seen talking to a fattie...unless she is hanging around with 2 of her hot friends then I wouldn't mind saying hi to her in order to get an introduction to her pals
Bible_Belt said:
I could not disagree more. If some fine breezy saw me huggin on a fat b1tch shes gonna be like "ew whats wrong with him" or "that must be a family member". Not "oh god hes sexy and sweet cuz he hugged my troll friend i want his nuts omgz"
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.