"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How to make girls interested in You

MightyMate

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Well the tip is simple but not many of You could understand that or notice.
Just be Yourself. Show the girl You care about Your hobbies or the tv show that You like more than about her.
If You have Your chess club meeting tell her You are busy because You are playing chess. If You got tv series on tv, tell her You are busy because You are a fan of this show. She might get mad, but she will date You because she is gonna feel less value than Your interest. Just put Your interest as a priority and girls will come themselves.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i am me

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Yeah man be yourself, why would you want to live a fake life. That "don't be yourself article" is BS, real people should be REAL to themselves
 

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Originally posted by JC Jerkson
I hate to quote Mystery but "If you always act like you've always acted, you'll always get what you've always gotten."


JC
That wasn't originally said by Mystery. It's been my favorite quote for years, and I don't know who it's originally from, but I know it wasn't him.

Good quote though. It's more or less what's in my signature.
 

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What i meant wasnt exacly 'to be Yourself' like in the post that Yu guys talk about. I meant. Not be Yourself, but be concentred on Yourself. Beeing Yourself is not beeing ****y if You aint ****y etc. I meant, tell her You are busy because You got interests. Even if You want to meet her, force Yourself not to do so because You HAD other plans. I mean, dont put her on the top. If You had other plans never change them. If somebody asks You if You can go to the cinema, dont say 'We will see'. Say You will, and then tell girl You are busy. Thats what i meant. Got my idea now?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DJ4Real

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Could have called this post "Prioritize your life"
 

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chess is cool.

if you exhibit the traits of a STRONG man - one who stands on his own two feet, doesn't sell out his values for the any price (including p*ssy), and who is out to live life (not just find some chic to strap a ball and chain to his ankle) - you can be into whatever the hell you want and the chics will still want you.

and chess, as far as im concerned, is one of the more "manly" items you can have in your repetoire... it shows you have a brain.

J
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by Monkey
How to make girls interested in you?

Become an interesting person!
We have a winner!

I don't think telling a girl that you can't go out with her because you're sitting at home alone watching a TV show is going to make her swoon for you.

You can have nerdy hobbies, but it doesn't matter if you're a respectable young man with drive an ambition to be something greater than a Star-Trek Convention Hall of Famer.
 
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