"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Well the tip is simple but not many of You could understand that or notice.
Just be Yourself. Show the girl You care about Your hobbies or the tv show that You like more than about her.
If You have Your chess club meeting tell her You are busy because You are playing chess. If You got tv series on tv, tell her You are busy because You are a fan of this show. She might get mad, but she will date You because she is gonna feel less value than Your interest. Just put Your interest as a priority and girls will come themselves.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yeah man be yourself, why would you want to live a fake life. That "don't be yourself article" is BS, real people should be REAL to themselves
 
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Originally posted by JC Jerkson
I hate to quote Mystery but "If you always act like you've always acted, you'll always get what you've always gotten."


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That wasn't originally said by Mystery. It's been my favorite quote for years, and I don't know who it's originally from, but I know it wasn't him.

Good quote though. It's more or less what's in my signature.
 
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What i meant wasnt exacly 'to be Yourself' like in the post that Yu guys talk about. I meant. Not be Yourself, but be concentred on Yourself. Beeing Yourself is not beeing ****y if You aint ****y etc. I meant, tell her You are busy because You got interests. Even if You want to meet her, force Yourself not to do so because You HAD other plans. I mean, dont put her on the top. If You had other plans never change them. If somebody asks You if You can go to the cinema, dont say 'We will see'. Say You will, and then tell girl You are busy. Thats what i meant. Got my idea now?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Could have called this post "Prioritize your life"
 
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chess is cool.

if you exhibit the traits of a STRONG man - one who stands on his own two feet, doesn't sell out his values for the any price (including p*ssy), and who is out to live life (not just find some chic to strap a ball and chain to his ankle) - you can be into whatever the hell you want and the chics will still want you.

and chess, as far as im concerned, is one of the more "manly" items you can have in your repetoire... it shows you have a brain.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Monkey
How to make girls interested in you?

Become an interesting person!
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We have a winner!

I don't think telling a girl that you can't go out with her because you're sitting at home alone watching a TV show is going to make her swoon for you.

You can have nerdy hobbies, but it doesn't matter if you're a respectable young man with drive an ambition to be something greater than a Star-Trek Convention Hall of Famer.
 
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