"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Well the tip is simple but not many of You could understand that or notice.
Just be Yourself. Show the girl You care about Your hobbies or the tv show that You like more than about her.
If You have Your chess club meeting tell her You are busy because You are playing chess. If You got tv series on tv, tell her You are busy because You are a fan of this show. She might get mad, but she will date You because she is gonna feel less value than Your interest. Just put Your interest as a priority and girls will come themselves.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yeah man be yourself, why would you want to live a fake life. That "don't be yourself article" is BS, real people should be REAL to themselves
 
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Originally posted by JC Jerkson
I hate to quote Mystery but "If you always act like you've always acted, you'll always get what you've always gotten."


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That wasn't originally said by Mystery. It's been my favorite quote for years, and I don't know who it's originally from, but I know it wasn't him.

Good quote though. It's more or less what's in my signature.
 
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What i meant wasnt exacly 'to be Yourself' like in the post that Yu guys talk about. I meant. Not be Yourself, but be concentred on Yourself. Beeing Yourself is not beeing ****y if You aint ****y etc. I meant, tell her You are busy because You got interests. Even if You want to meet her, force Yourself not to do so because You HAD other plans. I mean, dont put her on the top. If You had other plans never change them. If somebody asks You if You can go to the cinema, dont say 'We will see'. Say You will, and then tell girl You are busy. Thats what i meant. Got my idea now?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Could have called this post "Prioritize your life"
 
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chess is cool.

if you exhibit the traits of a STRONG man - one who stands on his own two feet, doesn't sell out his values for the any price (including p*ssy), and who is out to live life (not just find some chic to strap a ball and chain to his ankle) - you can be into whatever the hell you want and the chics will still want you.

and chess, as far as im concerned, is one of the more "manly" items you can have in your repetoire... it shows you have a brain.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Monkey
How to make girls interested in you?

Become an interesting person!
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We have a winner!

I don't think telling a girl that you can't go out with her because you're sitting at home alone watching a TV show is going to make her swoon for you.

You can have nerdy hobbies, but it doesn't matter if you're a respectable young man with drive an ambition to be something greater than a Star-Trek Convention Hall of Famer.
 
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