"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well the tip is simple but not many of You could understand that or notice.
Just be Yourself. Show the girl You care about Your hobbies or the tv show that You like more than about her.
If You have Your chess club meeting tell her You are busy because You are playing chess. If You got tv series on tv, tell her You are busy because You are a fan of this show. She might get mad, but she will date You because she is gonna feel less value than Your interest. Just put Your interest as a priority and girls will come themselves.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Yeah man be yourself, why would you want to live a fake life. That "don't be yourself article" is BS, real people should be REAL to themselves
 
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Originally posted by JC Jerkson
I hate to quote Mystery but "If you always act like you've always acted, you'll always get what you've always gotten."


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That wasn't originally said by Mystery. It's been my favorite quote for years, and I don't know who it's originally from, but I know it wasn't him.

Good quote though. It's more or less what's in my signature.
 
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What i meant wasnt exacly 'to be Yourself' like in the post that Yu guys talk about. I meant. Not be Yourself, but be concentred on Yourself. Beeing Yourself is not beeing ****y if You aint ****y etc. I meant, tell her You are busy because You got interests. Even if You want to meet her, force Yourself not to do so because You HAD other plans. I mean, dont put her on the top. If You had other plans never change them. If somebody asks You if You can go to the cinema, dont say 'We will see'. Say You will, and then tell girl You are busy. Thats what i meant. Got my idea now?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Could have called this post "Prioritize your life"
 
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chess is cool.

if you exhibit the traits of a STRONG man - one who stands on his own two feet, doesn't sell out his values for the any price (including p*ssy), and who is out to live life (not just find some chic to strap a ball and chain to his ankle) - you can be into whatever the hell you want and the chics will still want you.

and chess, as far as im concerned, is one of the more "manly" items you can have in your repetoire... it shows you have a brain.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Monkey
How to make girls interested in you?

Become an interesting person!
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We have a winner!

I don't think telling a girl that you can't go out with her because you're sitting at home alone watching a TV show is going to make her swoon for you.

You can have nerdy hobbies, but it doesn't matter if you're a respectable young man with drive an ambition to be something greater than a Star-Trek Convention Hall of Famer.
 
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