Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Well the tip is simple but not many of You could understand that or notice.
Just be Yourself. Show the girl You care about Your hobbies or the tv show that You like more than about her.
If You have Your chess club meeting tell her You are busy because You are playing chess. If You got tv series on tv, tell her You are busy because You are a fan of this show. She might get mad, but she will date You because she is gonna feel less value than Your interest. Just put Your interest as a priority and girls will come themselves.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Yeah man be yourself, why would you want to live a fake life. That "don't be yourself article" is BS, real people should be REAL to themselves
 
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Originally posted by JC Jerkson
I hate to quote Mystery but "If you always act like you've always acted, you'll always get what you've always gotten."


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That wasn't originally said by Mystery. It's been my favorite quote for years, and I don't know who it's originally from, but I know it wasn't him.

Good quote though. It's more or less what's in my signature.
 
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What i meant wasnt exacly 'to be Yourself' like in the post that Yu guys talk about. I meant. Not be Yourself, but be concentred on Yourself. Beeing Yourself is not beeing ****y if You aint ****y etc. I meant, tell her You are busy because You got interests. Even if You want to meet her, force Yourself not to do so because You HAD other plans. I mean, dont put her on the top. If You had other plans never change them. If somebody asks You if You can go to the cinema, dont say 'We will see'. Say You will, and then tell girl You are busy. Thats what i meant. Got my idea now?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Could have called this post "Prioritize your life"
 
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chess is cool.

if you exhibit the traits of a STRONG man - one who stands on his own two feet, doesn't sell out his values for the any price (including p*ssy), and who is out to live life (not just find some chic to strap a ball and chain to his ankle) - you can be into whatever the hell you want and the chics will still want you.

and chess, as far as im concerned, is one of the more "manly" items you can have in your repetoire... it shows you have a brain.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Monkey
How to make girls interested in you?

Become an interesting person!
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We have a winner!

I don't think telling a girl that you can't go out with her because you're sitting at home alone watching a TV show is going to make her swoon for you.

You can have nerdy hobbies, but it doesn't matter if you're a respectable young man with drive an ambition to be something greater than a Star-Trek Convention Hall of Famer.
 
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