.. my girlfriend and I.. at the start of the relationship with my girlfriend was great. I can say that I continue to be a Challenged for her. Later on she found out that i'm fooling around with the other girl. that the start of the tragic.. her trust was sink to 40%. do i have to say NEXT? or IS there something that i can do to keep this girl. i don't want to lose her... she's my candidate for LTR.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
how to keep my gf when her trust was sinking low?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
zerocelcius
Master Don Juan
Did you tell her she was exclusive?
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
Well, if you wanted to keep her and since she found out... She will probably leave you. She may stay if she thinks your the great catch and her interest level is really high. But, that will always be in the back of her head and who knows how the relationship could go after this. Jusy play it cool with your girl and see how it goes. Or just drop her and leave behinde all the drama that will come into your life.
KontrollerX
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When you declare a chick your girlfriend that by itself implies exclusivity.
You are now the cheater in the relationship and it looks like your girlfriend is going to walk away from you and rightfully so.
There is nothing you can do to save this sinking ship unless she is unbelievably forgiving and you cut off contact with all other girls.
I mean you could walk away from this chick first but to my mind that would just add insult to injury.
You've put yourself in a lose/lose scenario basically that all depends on this girl forgiving and forgetting and I don't see her doing either.
You are now the cheater in the relationship and it looks like your girlfriend is going to walk away from you and rightfully so.
There is nothing you can do to save this sinking ship unless she is unbelievably forgiving and you cut off contact with all other girls.
I mean you could walk away from this chick first but to my mind that would just add insult to injury.
You've put yourself in a lose/lose scenario basically that all depends on this girl forgiving and forgetting and I don't see her doing either.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
zerocelcius
Master Don Juan
Let her know she is appreciated. Tell her you weren’t ready to settle down. If you want to be only with her, than tell her you will give up the other girls. If she doesn't accept this than it is over.
KontrollerX & I.A.F.Y.B. have already said the rest.
Don't imply or promise exclusivity unless they are exclusive. Lesson learned?
KontrollerX & I.A.F.Y.B. have already said the rest.
Don't imply or promise exclusivity unless they are exclusive. Lesson learned?
PectoralisMajor
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Good advice by zero - use it..