.. my girlfriend and I.. at the start of the relationship with my girlfriend was great. I can say that I continue to be a Challenged for her. Later on she found out that i'm fooling around with the other girl. that the start of the tragic.. her trust was sink to 40%. do i have to say NEXT? or IS there something that i can do to keep this girl. i don't want to lose her... she's my candidate for LTR.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
how to keep my gf when her trust was sinking low?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
zerocelcius
Master Don Juan
Did you tell her she was exclusive?
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
Well, if you wanted to keep her and since she found out... She will probably leave you. She may stay if she thinks your the great catch and her interest level is really high. But, that will always be in the back of her head and who knows how the relationship could go after this. Jusy play it cool with your girl and see how it goes. Or just drop her and leave behinde all the drama that will come into your life.
KontrollerX
Master Don Juan
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When you declare a chick your girlfriend that by itself implies exclusivity.
You are now the cheater in the relationship and it looks like your girlfriend is going to walk away from you and rightfully so.
There is nothing you can do to save this sinking ship unless she is unbelievably forgiving and you cut off contact with all other girls.
I mean you could walk away from this chick first but to my mind that would just add insult to injury.
You've put yourself in a lose/lose scenario basically that all depends on this girl forgiving and forgetting and I don't see her doing either.
You are now the cheater in the relationship and it looks like your girlfriend is going to walk away from you and rightfully so.
There is nothing you can do to save this sinking ship unless she is unbelievably forgiving and you cut off contact with all other girls.
I mean you could walk away from this chick first but to my mind that would just add insult to injury.
You've put yourself in a lose/lose scenario basically that all depends on this girl forgiving and forgetting and I don't see her doing either.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
zerocelcius
Master Don Juan
Let her know she is appreciated. Tell her you weren’t ready to settle down. If you want to be only with her, than tell her you will give up the other girls. If she doesn't accept this than it is over.
KontrollerX & I.A.F.Y.B. have already said the rest.
Don't imply or promise exclusivity unless they are exclusive. Lesson learned?
KontrollerX & I.A.F.Y.B. have already said the rest.
Don't imply or promise exclusivity unless they are exclusive. Lesson learned?
PectoralisMajor
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Good advice by zero - use it..