.. my girlfriend and I.. at the start of the relationship with my girlfriend was great. I can say that I continue to be a Challenged for her. Later on she found out that i'm fooling around with the other girl. that the start of the tragic.. her trust was sink to 40%. do i have to say NEXT? or IS there something that i can do to keep this girl. i don't want to lose her... she's my candidate for LTR.
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how to keep my gf when her trust was sinking low?
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
zerocelcius
Master Don Juan
Did you tell her she was exclusive?
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
Well, if you wanted to keep her and since she found out... She will probably leave you. She may stay if she thinks your the great catch and her interest level is really high. But, that will always be in the back of her head and who knows how the relationship could go after this. Jusy play it cool with your girl and see how it goes. Or just drop her and leave behinde all the drama that will come into your life.
KontrollerX
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When you declare a chick your girlfriend that by itself implies exclusivity.
You are now the cheater in the relationship and it looks like your girlfriend is going to walk away from you and rightfully so.
There is nothing you can do to save this sinking ship unless she is unbelievably forgiving and you cut off contact with all other girls.
I mean you could walk away from this chick first but to my mind that would just add insult to injury.
You've put yourself in a lose/lose scenario basically that all depends on this girl forgiving and forgetting and I don't see her doing either.
You are now the cheater in the relationship and it looks like your girlfriend is going to walk away from you and rightfully so.
There is nothing you can do to save this sinking ship unless she is unbelievably forgiving and you cut off contact with all other girls.
I mean you could walk away from this chick first but to my mind that would just add insult to injury.
You've put yourself in a lose/lose scenario basically that all depends on this girl forgiving and forgetting and I don't see her doing either.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
zerocelcius
Master Don Juan
Let her know she is appreciated. Tell her you weren’t ready to settle down. If you want to be only with her, than tell her you will give up the other girls. If she doesn't accept this than it is over.
KontrollerX & I.A.F.Y.B. have already said the rest.
Don't imply or promise exclusivity unless they are exclusive. Lesson learned?
KontrollerX & I.A.F.Y.B. have already said the rest.
Don't imply or promise exclusivity unless they are exclusive. Lesson learned?
PectoralisMajor
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Good advice by zero - use it..