You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Im from the UK and disagree entirely with youmintyweasel said:hes as funny as cancer![]()
if this guy ever came to the UK he'd be on stage in front of an empty room, I know theres subtle differences between the american and english sense of humours, but come on, did he pay his audience to laugh?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Oh ****, yeh sorry, I forgot there for a minute that I'm stupid. Please forgive me.Burroughs said:minty you are far too stupid to be alive period
...too bad you're not a white girl dating joran van der sloot :crackup:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TeCMCJc5-jg