"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to get the dumb white blondes

steeringclear

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I feel as if I attract a lot of Europeans or latinas or just people from other countries. I have darker features so maybe they’re into that whereas the dumb white blonde chicks usually go for the plain hockey/country boy archetype.

Do any of you guys have tips on breaking getting with these types of white blondes even though the type of guy they prefer isn’t my style at all.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Clockwerk50

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What do you mean by darker features? Are you black, Latino, Indian, or something else?

You’re right that, if you want to cast a wider net, a lot of white women are into the Riley Green look, which mixes the country-boy and lumberjack aesthetics, often with a mullet. Others prefer a clean-cut look, with a French crop, sharp fade, clean-shaven face, and tattoos. You can borrow elements of these styles, such as Carhartt clothing, fitted jeans, boots, flannel shirts, or different hairstyles, without going overboard or looking like you’re trying too hard.

Nonetheless, women have different tastes, and that works in your favour. Some prefer a conventional, all-American look, while others are attracted to novelty, different cultural backgrounds, or a man who offers something different from what they’re used to. Others are drawn to confidence, excitement, or a particular lifestyle. For example, I see attractive white women dating black men with an A$AP Rocky or basketball-player look at the malls near my house. The point is to find women who appreciate your look and what you have to offer, and to know where you’re more likely to meet them. A bear isn’t going to hunt for salmon in a desert.
 

The Duke

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My experience has always been its tough to break away from what it is you attract.

A friend of mine has darker European features and struggles with the blonde, white American girls. He can get Mexican/Brazilian girls all day long. I'm just the opposite.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Why would you want a dumb woman? I'd rather a pay a dumb woman for it then date her for it. :rolleyes:
 

BaronOfHair

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I feel as if I attract a lot of Europeans or latinas or just people from other countries. I have darker features so maybe they’re into that whereas the dumb white blonde chicks usually go for the plain hockey/country boy archetype.

Do any of you guys have tips on breaking getting with these types of white blondes even though the type of guy they prefer isn’t my style at all.
Hmmm... I've also got "dark features" and never had difficulties pairing up with blonde gals who are classified Anglo/Aryan. If anything, it's been my observation that this demographic finds us exotic and thus intriguing

Perhaps start by recognizing that these women are actually more pink than they are "white"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bokanovsky

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I feel as if I attract a lot of Europeans or latinas or just people from other countries. I have darker features so maybe they’re into that whereas the dumb white blonde chicks usually go for the plain hockey/country boy archetype.

Do any of you guys have tips on breaking getting with these types of white blondes even though the type of guy they prefer isn’t my style at all.
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environment. these women will select the top man in view. regardless of your shade. there are assumptions that go with shade, with some of those assumption planted very young. demonstrate that those assumptions are false. if your the king in a white world with real respect from the white men, you will be selected.

many of your target group learned that it is a sin to go with you. they learned it from there family at the same time they learned to talk. there parents had reasons as taught by there parents... and so on...

so on a 10 point smv scale you might get a -5 or even -6 with that target. that's huge... however.. if your a 12 in a 10 point system you will still get... and your -5 goes down to -1 when your seen with members of your target... you can become an 11 with that target group.

same story as always for every man. self improvement.

probably easier to pick 8s, out of the other shades...
 

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You're playing from the underdog position, so don't expect to get those women easily. I come from the same boat, though I have a much easier time with them due to my athletic look. Unfortunately, they also play it safe these days, and they all have a white ****boy that they are with, so a little hard to get into their bed unless one of them is just having the right angle of night to want to do something risky with a guy like me. Otherwise, I attract the white cougars past their prime or middle age married white wife instead. Some guys are into that, but I like them young.

And like others, blacks and mexicans are easy but they usually aren't hot.
 
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