"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How to get the dumb white blondes

steeringclear

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I feel as if I attract a lot of Europeans or latinas or just people from other countries. I have darker features so maybe they’re into that whereas the dumb white blonde chicks usually go for the plain hockey/country boy archetype.

Do any of you guys have tips on breaking getting with these types of white blondes even though the type of guy they prefer isn’t my style at all.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Clockwerk50

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What do you mean by darker features? Are you black, Latino, Indian, or something else?

You’re right that, if you want to cast a wider net, a lot of white women are into the Riley Green look, which mixes the country-boy and lumberjack aesthetics, often with a mullet. Others prefer a clean-cut look, with a French crop, sharp fade, clean-shaven face, and tattoos. You can borrow elements of these styles, such as Carhartt clothing, fitted jeans, boots, flannel shirts, or different hairstyles, without going overboard or looking like you’re trying too hard.

Nonetheless, women have different tastes, and that works in your favour. Some prefer a conventional, all-American look, while others are attracted to novelty, different cultural backgrounds, or a man who offers something different from what they’re used to. Others are drawn to confidence, excitement, or a particular lifestyle. For example, I see attractive white women dating black men with an A$AP Rocky or basketball-player look at the malls near my house. The point is to find women who appreciate your look and what you have to offer, and to know where you’re more likely to meet them. A bear isn’t going to hunt for salmon in a desert.
 

The Duke

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My experience has always been its tough to break away from what it is you attract.

A friend of mine has darker European features and struggles with the blonde, white American girls. He can get Mexican/Brazilian girls all day long. I'm just the opposite.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

MatureDJ

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Why would you want a dumb woman? I'd rather a pay a dumb woman for it then date her for it. :rolleyes:
 

BaronOfHair

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I feel as if I attract a lot of Europeans or latinas or just people from other countries. I have darker features so maybe they’re into that whereas the dumb white blonde chicks usually go for the plain hockey/country boy archetype.

Do any of you guys have tips on breaking getting with these types of white blondes even though the type of guy they prefer isn’t my style at all.
Hmmm... I've also got "dark features" and never had difficulties pairing up with blonde gals who are classified Anglo/Aryan. If anything, it's been my observation that this demographic finds us exotic and thus intriguing

Perhaps start by recognizing that these women are actually more pink than they are "white"
 

BillyPilgrim

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Move to Minneapolis. Blonde, white and leftist.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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BillyPilgrim

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Is there anything else there besides white blonde leftist chicks and PP?? Idk
There's usually a good gov't psyop to rally around in sub freezing weather
 

zekko

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Buy them a bottle of hair color?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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