"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How to get over a break-up faster. Watch this if you just broke up.

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This guy Arkady39 (www.practicalhappiness.com) on youtube gives some pretty good PRACTICAL advice. NORMAL 'non-PUA B.S.' advice.

http://youtu.be/TxaXmNovgGs


How to get over a break up faster tips. Pretty much what most posters agree on on here.

Learn from your past, grow from it. Improve yourself to be the best person you can be.

Check the video out and leave your comments. Peace brothers.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Here's another pretty good one from someone else on youtube. The only thing I disagree with is trying to be friends later on or waiting for a few months to be friends. I say move on.

http://youtu.be/MrwGjn40yy8

One door closes a new one opens. Learn and self reflect. Lock the old one, and choose wisely on which new door you decide to open.

Allow yourself to grieve. Don't dwell on the past. Trust me. Once you look inward and learn from your dating experiences and use the positives out of them towards your next as well as being the best person you can be. Things WILL work out for the better for you brothers. The Ninja ain't lyin.
 

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Of all the pick up and seduction gurus, Arkady is my favourite. He's very down to earth, mature and gives some really good advice without trying to show off, act like a pimp or generally validate himself.

I recommend to anyone here, whether they're beginners or more intermediate, to check out some of his videos.
 

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How about not getting super attached in the first place? Quit being women and look at things from a realistic perspective.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Jariel said:
Of all the pick up and seduction gurus, Arkady is my favourite. He's very down to earth, mature and gives some really good advice without trying to show off, act like a pimp or generally validate himself.

I recommend to anyone here, whether they're beginners or more intermediate, to check out some of his videos.

Seriously. That guy seems normal and nothing at all like those PUA weirdos. Simple, PRACTICAL advice. I like watching his videos. Seems like a very cool guy.
 

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Didn't watch the video but I'm pretty sure it all comes down to NC + pursuing other girls. Did he say anything mind-blowing?
 
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