"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How to get over a break-up faster. Watch this if you just broke up.

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This guy Arkady39 (www.practicalhappiness.com) on youtube gives some pretty good PRACTICAL advice. NORMAL 'non-PUA B.S.' advice.

http://youtu.be/TxaXmNovgGs


How to get over a break up faster tips. Pretty much what most posters agree on on here.

Learn from your past, grow from it. Improve yourself to be the best person you can be.

Check the video out and leave your comments. Peace brothers.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Here's another pretty good one from someone else on youtube. The only thing I disagree with is trying to be friends later on or waiting for a few months to be friends. I say move on.

http://youtu.be/MrwGjn40yy8

One door closes a new one opens. Learn and self reflect. Lock the old one, and choose wisely on which new door you decide to open.

Allow yourself to grieve. Don't dwell on the past. Trust me. Once you look inward and learn from your dating experiences and use the positives out of them towards your next as well as being the best person you can be. Things WILL work out for the better for you brothers. The Ninja ain't lyin.
 

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Of all the pick up and seduction gurus, Arkady is my favourite. He's very down to earth, mature and gives some really good advice without trying to show off, act like a pimp or generally validate himself.

I recommend to anyone here, whether they're beginners or more intermediate, to check out some of his videos.
 

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How about not getting super attached in the first place? Quit being women and look at things from a realistic perspective.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Jariel said:
Of all the pick up and seduction gurus, Arkady is my favourite. He's very down to earth, mature and gives some really good advice without trying to show off, act like a pimp or generally validate himself.

I recommend to anyone here, whether they're beginners or more intermediate, to check out some of his videos.

Seriously. That guy seems normal and nothing at all like those PUA weirdos. Simple, PRACTICAL advice. I like watching his videos. Seems like a very cool guy.
 

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Didn't watch the video but I'm pretty sure it all comes down to NC + pursuing other girls. Did he say anything mind-blowing?
 
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