"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How to get over a break-up faster. Watch this if you just broke up.

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This guy Arkady39 (www.practicalhappiness.com) on youtube gives some pretty good PRACTICAL advice. NORMAL 'non-PUA B.S.' advice.

http://youtu.be/TxaXmNovgGs


How to get over a break up faster tips. Pretty much what most posters agree on on here.

Learn from your past, grow from it. Improve yourself to be the best person you can be.

Check the video out and leave your comments. Peace brothers.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Here's another pretty good one from someone else on youtube. The only thing I disagree with is trying to be friends later on or waiting for a few months to be friends. I say move on.

http://youtu.be/MrwGjn40yy8

One door closes a new one opens. Learn and self reflect. Lock the old one, and choose wisely on which new door you decide to open.

Allow yourself to grieve. Don't dwell on the past. Trust me. Once you look inward and learn from your dating experiences and use the positives out of them towards your next as well as being the best person you can be. Things WILL work out for the better for you brothers. The Ninja ain't lyin.
 

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Of all the pick up and seduction gurus, Arkady is my favourite. He's very down to earth, mature and gives some really good advice without trying to show off, act like a pimp or generally validate himself.

I recommend to anyone here, whether they're beginners or more intermediate, to check out some of his videos.
 

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How about not getting super attached in the first place? Quit being women and look at things from a realistic perspective.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Jariel said:
Of all the pick up and seduction gurus, Arkady is my favourite. He's very down to earth, mature and gives some really good advice without trying to show off, act like a pimp or generally validate himself.

I recommend to anyone here, whether they're beginners or more intermediate, to check out some of his videos.

Seriously. That guy seems normal and nothing at all like those PUA weirdos. Simple, PRACTICAL advice. I like watching his videos. Seems like a very cool guy.
 

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Didn't watch the video but I'm pretty sure it all comes down to NC + pursuing other girls. Did he say anything mind-blowing?
 
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