Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How to get over a break-up faster. Watch this if you just broke up.

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This guy Arkady39 (www.practicalhappiness.com) on youtube gives some pretty good PRACTICAL advice. NORMAL 'non-PUA B.S.' advice.

http://youtu.be/TxaXmNovgGs


How to get over a break up faster tips. Pretty much what most posters agree on on here.

Learn from your past, grow from it. Improve yourself to be the best person you can be.

Check the video out and leave your comments. Peace brothers.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Here's another pretty good one from someone else on youtube. The only thing I disagree with is trying to be friends later on or waiting for a few months to be friends. I say move on.

http://youtu.be/MrwGjn40yy8

One door closes a new one opens. Learn and self reflect. Lock the old one, and choose wisely on which new door you decide to open.

Allow yourself to grieve. Don't dwell on the past. Trust me. Once you look inward and learn from your dating experiences and use the positives out of them towards your next as well as being the best person you can be. Things WILL work out for the better for you brothers. The Ninja ain't lyin.
 

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Of all the pick up and seduction gurus, Arkady is my favourite. He's very down to earth, mature and gives some really good advice without trying to show off, act like a pimp or generally validate himself.

I recommend to anyone here, whether they're beginners or more intermediate, to check out some of his videos.
 

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How about not getting super attached in the first place? Quit being women and look at things from a realistic perspective.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jariel said:
Of all the pick up and seduction gurus, Arkady is my favourite. He's very down to earth, mature and gives some really good advice without trying to show off, act like a pimp or generally validate himself.

I recommend to anyone here, whether they're beginners or more intermediate, to check out some of his videos.

Seriously. That guy seems normal and nothing at all like those PUA weirdos. Simple, PRACTICAL advice. I like watching his videos. Seems like a very cool guy.
 

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Didn't watch the video but I'm pretty sure it all comes down to NC + pursuing other girls. Did he say anything mind-blowing?
 
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