"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How to get over a break-up faster. Watch this if you just broke up.

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This guy Arkady39 (www.practicalhappiness.com) on youtube gives some pretty good PRACTICAL advice. NORMAL 'non-PUA B.S.' advice.

http://youtu.be/TxaXmNovgGs


How to get over a break up faster tips. Pretty much what most posters agree on on here.

Learn from your past, grow from it. Improve yourself to be the best person you can be.

Check the video out and leave your comments. Peace brothers.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Here's another pretty good one from someone else on youtube. The only thing I disagree with is trying to be friends later on or waiting for a few months to be friends. I say move on.

http://youtu.be/MrwGjn40yy8

One door closes a new one opens. Learn and self reflect. Lock the old one, and choose wisely on which new door you decide to open.

Allow yourself to grieve. Don't dwell on the past. Trust me. Once you look inward and learn from your dating experiences and use the positives out of them towards your next as well as being the best person you can be. Things WILL work out for the better for you brothers. The Ninja ain't lyin.
 
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Of all the pick up and seduction gurus, Arkady is my favourite. He's very down to earth, mature and gives some really good advice without trying to show off, act like a pimp or generally validate himself.

I recommend to anyone here, whether they're beginners or more intermediate, to check out some of his videos.
 
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How about not getting super attached in the first place? Quit being women and look at things from a realistic perspective.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Jariel said:
Of all the pick up and seduction gurus, Arkady is my favourite. He's very down to earth, mature and gives some really good advice without trying to show off, act like a pimp or generally validate himself.

I recommend to anyone here, whether they're beginners or more intermediate, to check out some of his videos.
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Seriously. That guy seems normal and nothing at all like those PUA weirdos. Simple, PRACTICAL advice. I like watching his videos. Seems like a very cool guy.
 
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Didn't watch the video but I'm pretty sure it all comes down to NC + pursuing other girls. Did he say anything mind-blowing?
 
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