weakepedea
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How do I develop confidence?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
How to develop confidence?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
Experience.
Randallpink83
Master Don Juan
well you're gonna need a lot of tape, glue, clay and some chips and salsa...
or you can click on the link at the very bottom of this page that says "The DJ Bible" and find anything you want in there.
or you can click on the link at the very bottom of this page that says "The DJ Bible" and find anything you want in there.
KontrollerX
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I like how Rollo put it.
"Fake it until you make it."
Thats one way to build confidence.
Another is assigning yourself some tasks for the day of how many women you will approach or whatever.
The poster who mentioned the DJ Bible is right when he basically conveyed you should check it out.
It has a boot camp section in it that can help you build all the confidence in the world as I believe it gives you projects to do.
"Fake it until you make it."
Thats one way to build confidence.
Another is assigning yourself some tasks for the day of how many women you will approach or whatever.
The poster who mentioned the DJ Bible is right when he basically conveyed you should check it out.
It has a boot camp section in it that can help you build all the confidence in the world as I believe it gives you projects to do.
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
I like this question
Here is one description of confidence :
Confidence is the knowledge survivaveable situations.
In other words confidence is combination of experience and courage.
What is experience ? Doing new things wrong at first, and then gradually closwer to right from trial and error or through coaching.
What is courage? It is acting in the face of fear.
Therefore, to gain more real confidence you must start by going out and experiencing new things, then once fear sets in you must act in spite of your fears, once accomplished that level of fear you surpassed gets added as an equal level of confidence because you see that you can survive a new situation.
PS / Dumbass warning : Going into harlem at midnight as a white guy because you're scared of it will not be a demonstration of courage but a demonstration of stupidity. If you insist on getting into fights at least go into martial arts where you won't end up killed.
Here is one description of confidence :
Confidence is the knowledge survivaveable situations.
In other words confidence is combination of experience and courage.
What is experience ? Doing new things wrong at first, and then gradually closwer to right from trial and error or through coaching.
What is courage? It is acting in the face of fear.
Therefore, to gain more real confidence you must start by going out and experiencing new things, then once fear sets in you must act in spite of your fears, once accomplished that level of fear you surpassed gets added as an equal level of confidence because you see that you can survive a new situation.
PS / Dumbass warning : Going into harlem at midnight as a white guy because you're scared of it will not be a demonstration of courage but a demonstration of stupidity. If you insist on getting into fights at least go into martial arts where you won't end up killed.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
PlaysToWin
Don Juan
I highly endorse this.KontrollerX said:"Fake it until you make it."