Lol, yes absolutely.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How to deal with sexual incompatibility
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
DEEZEDBRAH
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Beta as ****kkk question. If a man thinks a woman isn't loyal, next her.
Beta as ****kkk question. If a man thinks a woman isn't loyal, next her.
greatsnake
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You can try, but often times it’s just that the chemistry isn’t there.
mrgoodstuff
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Trying fvcks it. Live your life. If she isbt putting out, replace.
Serenity
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I'd say back off, don't bring up the topic of sex at all in the next 2 weeks. If she doesn't even bring it up for 2 weeks I'd say it's time to part ways... Tell her you're incompatible, it's not working for you and be on your way.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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If there is no sexual compatibility you both are basically pals. Dump her and look for a chick that does. It’s not easy, but it’s better to look for what makes you happy than settle.
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Theres a couple things I have learned since being here...
1. A man doesnt ever ask for sex. You just go for it, whenever you feel like it. I will fvck the lady when she feels the nastiest, like right after the gym or camping or whatever. She says "oh, but I'm so gross" as I peel off her pants. And I respond with "ask me if I care?"
2. There are no conditions for sex (showered, morning, nighttime, bed only, etc.).
3. Keep sex on her mind. Do this with texts, casual foreplay that doesnt pead anywhere, grabbing her butt, things like that.
4. When it's time for sex, you better make sure it's good. If she is not reaching orgasm, you either suck at fvcking or suck at tapping into her emotions. Plain and simple.
5. If a woman says "no", it's a free pass to get it elsewhere.
6. Dont evr ever ever barter for sex.
7. Dont ever let her use the term, eg. "you might get lucky tonight." Fvck that highly feminized Hollywood nonsense. She is lucky to recieve your d1ck.
I think that just about covers it...
1. A man doesnt ever ask for sex. You just go for it, whenever you feel like it. I will fvck the lady when she feels the nastiest, like right after the gym or camping or whatever. She says "oh, but I'm so gross" as I peel off her pants. And I respond with "ask me if I care?"
2. There are no conditions for sex (showered, morning, nighttime, bed only, etc.).
3. Keep sex on her mind. Do this with texts, casual foreplay that doesnt pead anywhere, grabbing her butt, things like that.
4. When it's time for sex, you better make sure it's good. If she is not reaching orgasm, you either suck at fvcking or suck at tapping into her emotions. Plain and simple.
5. If a woman says "no", it's a free pass to get it elsewhere.
6. Dont evr ever ever barter for sex.
7. Dont ever let her use the term, eg. "you might get lucky tonight." Fvck that highly feminized Hollywood nonsense. She is lucky to recieve your d1ck.
I think that just about covers it...
I'm average
Agree with you, I'll try stop initiating for a while to see if I she makes a move.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
mrgoodstuff
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Did she ever say thst c0ck size is an issue?
Thanks for your reply, nice to read these tips. About orgasm, that's another issue because I try everything and she just won't ***. I had ex girlfriends who used to *** I don't think it's my fault. I try everything with my gf, sex toys, oral, lot of foreplay, g spot with oral, she's always wet she feels horny but it feels like she doesn't climax.
No, I'm 6 inches
mrgoodstuff
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6 is fine. Have a great body and a **** ton of confidence.
Alot of the babes are more stimulated by your social status and how her group views you. It stimulates her imagination. For a regular hard working guy it can suck.
Take an assessment of the overall picture.
Any time you have a lady and the attraction isnt strong enough pulling your attention and focusing on what you want cant hurt.
Make sure your happy.
Dont kiss up to her or ***** beg.
Throw in a few weekend hunting trips and fishing trips and she will wonder.
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hopefully that's circumference.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.