"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to deal with sexual incompatibility

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DEEZEDBRAH

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#nextSet #micdrop

Beta as ****kkk question. If a man thinks a woman isn't loyal, next her.
 

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I'd say back off, don't bring up the topic of sex at all in the next 2 weeks. If she doesn't even bring it up for 2 weeks I'd say it's time to part ways... Tell her you're incompatible, it's not working for you and be on your way.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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If there is no sexual compatibility you both are basically pals. Dump her and look for a chick that does. It’s not easy, but it’s better to look for what makes you happy than settle.
 

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Its easier to break up but I love this girl. I'd just like to have a solution for this. We're always having sex, we're not in a sexless relationship. It's just that I get insecure because she doesn't initiate.
 

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Theres a couple things I have learned since being here...

1. A man doesnt ever ask for sex. You just go for it, whenever you feel like it. I will fvck the lady when she feels the nastiest, like right after the gym or camping or whatever. She says "oh, but I'm so gross" as I peel off her pants. And I respond with "ask me if I care?"

2. There are no conditions for sex (showered, morning, nighttime, bed only, etc.).

3. Keep sex on her mind. Do this with texts, casual foreplay that doesnt pead anywhere, grabbing her butt, things like that.

4. When it's time for sex, you better make sure it's good. If she is not reaching orgasm, you either suck at fvcking or suck at tapping into her emotions. Plain and simple.

5. If a woman says "no", it's a free pass to get it elsewhere.

6. Dont evr ever ever barter for sex.

7. Dont ever let her use the term, eg. "you might get lucky tonight." Fvck that highly feminized Hollywood nonsense. She is lucky to recieve your d1ck.

I think that just about covers it...
 

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I'd say back off, don't bring up the topic of sex at all in the next 2 weeks. If she doesn't even bring it up for 2 weeks I'd say it's time to part ways... Tell her you're incompatible, it's not working for you and be on your way.
Agree with you, I'll try stop initiating for a while to see if I she makes a move.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Theres a couple things I have learned since being here...

1. A man doesnt ever ask for sex. You just go for it, whenever you feel like it. I will fvck the lady when she feels the nastiest, like right after the gym or camping or whatever. She says "oh, but I'm so gross" as I peel off her pants. And I respond with "ask me if I care?"

2. There are no conditions for sex (showered, morning, nighttime, bed only, etc.).

3. Keep sex on her mind. Do this with texts, casual foreplay that doesnt pead anywhere, grabbing her butt, things like that.

4. When it's time for sex, you better make sure it's good. If she is not reaching orgasm, you either suck at fvcking or suck at tapping into her emotions. Plain and simple.

5. If a woman says "no", it's a free pass to get it elsewhere.

6. Dont evr ever ever barter for sex.

7. Dont ever let her use the term, eg. "you might get lucky tonight." Fvck that highly feminized Hollywood nonsense. She is lucky to recieve your d1ck.

I think that just about covers it...
Thanks for your reply, nice to read these tips. About orgasm, that's another issue because I try everything and she just won't ***. I had ex girlfriends who used to *** I don't think it's my fault. I try everything with my gf, sex toys, oral, lot of foreplay, g spot with oral, she's always wet she feels horny but it feels like she doesn't climax.
 

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No, I'm 6 inches
6 is fine. Have a great body and a **** ton of confidence.

Alot of the babes are more stimulated by your social status and how her group views you. It stimulates her imagination. For a regular hard working guy it can suck.

Take an assessment of the overall picture.

Any time you have a lady and the attraction isnt strong enough pulling your attention and focusing on what you want cant hurt.

Make sure your happy.

Dont kiss up to her or ***** beg.

Throw in a few weekend hunting trips and fishing trips and she will wonder.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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