Lol, yes absolutely.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
How to deal with sexual incompatibility
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
DEEZEDBRAH
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#nextSet #micdrop
Beta as ****kkk question. If a man thinks a woman isn't loyal, next her.
Beta as ****kkk question. If a man thinks a woman isn't loyal, next her.
greatsnake
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You can try, but often times it’s just that the chemistry isn’t there.
mrgoodstuff
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Trying fvcks it. Live your life. If she isbt putting out, replace.
Serenity
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I'd say back off, don't bring up the topic of sex at all in the next 2 weeks. If she doesn't even bring it up for 2 weeks I'd say it's time to part ways... Tell her you're incompatible, it's not working for you and be on your way.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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If there is no sexual compatibility you both are basically pals. Dump her and look for a chick that does. It’s not easy, but it’s better to look for what makes you happy than settle.
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Theres a couple things I have learned since being here...
1. A man doesnt ever ask for sex. You just go for it, whenever you feel like it. I will fvck the lady when she feels the nastiest, like right after the gym or camping or whatever. She says "oh, but I'm so gross" as I peel off her pants. And I respond with "ask me if I care?"
2. There are no conditions for sex (showered, morning, nighttime, bed only, etc.).
3. Keep sex on her mind. Do this with texts, casual foreplay that doesnt pead anywhere, grabbing her butt, things like that.
4. When it's time for sex, you better make sure it's good. If she is not reaching orgasm, you either suck at fvcking or suck at tapping into her emotions. Plain and simple.
5. If a woman says "no", it's a free pass to get it elsewhere.
6. Dont evr ever ever barter for sex.
7. Dont ever let her use the term, eg. "you might get lucky tonight." Fvck that highly feminized Hollywood nonsense. She is lucky to recieve your d1ck.
I think that just about covers it...
1. A man doesnt ever ask for sex. You just go for it, whenever you feel like it. I will fvck the lady when she feels the nastiest, like right after the gym or camping or whatever. She says "oh, but I'm so gross" as I peel off her pants. And I respond with "ask me if I care?"
2. There are no conditions for sex (showered, morning, nighttime, bed only, etc.).
3. Keep sex on her mind. Do this with texts, casual foreplay that doesnt pead anywhere, grabbing her butt, things like that.
4. When it's time for sex, you better make sure it's good. If she is not reaching orgasm, you either suck at fvcking or suck at tapping into her emotions. Plain and simple.
5. If a woman says "no", it's a free pass to get it elsewhere.
6. Dont evr ever ever barter for sex.
7. Dont ever let her use the term, eg. "you might get lucky tonight." Fvck that highly feminized Hollywood nonsense. She is lucky to recieve your d1ck.
I think that just about covers it...
I'm average
Agree with you, I'll try stop initiating for a while to see if I she makes a move.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
mrgoodstuff
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Did she ever say thst c0ck size is an issue?
Thanks for your reply, nice to read these tips. About orgasm, that's another issue because I try everything and she just won't ***. I had ex girlfriends who used to *** I don't think it's my fault. I try everything with my gf, sex toys, oral, lot of foreplay, g spot with oral, she's always wet she feels horny but it feels like she doesn't climax.
No, I'm 6 inches
mrgoodstuff
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6 is fine. Have a great body and a **** ton of confidence.
Alot of the babes are more stimulated by your social status and how her group views you. It stimulates her imagination. For a regular hard working guy it can suck.
Take an assessment of the overall picture.
Any time you have a lady and the attraction isnt strong enough pulling your attention and focusing on what you want cant hurt.
Make sure your happy.
Dont kiss up to her or ***** beg.
Throw in a few weekend hunting trips and fishing trips and she will wonder.
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hopefully that's circumference.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.