How to be less horny?

[Demystify]

I've tried working out and other hobbies to keep my mind off it, but I still can't stop thinking about getting laid. It's pretty much all I ever think about it. How can I be less horny?

 

[SmoothTalker]

Working out (unless it's extreme to the point of overtraining) will only make you hornier, so I'm not sure where you got that idea. Not saying you should stop though.

Why do you want to be less horny? Enjoy it while you're young, and learn to channel that drive and energy into something productive instead.

Also, get laid. That's about the only thing that will make you think less about sex.

 

[Schwank]

Being real horny is great... if you actually get enough p*ssy; otherwise, it's just tantalising. I suppose a good simple analogy would be that of a starving African: always hungry, but he never gets to eat to his heart's content. What a tease!

Anyway, in regard to your specific question, I don't know anything that would diminish your sex drive, other than certain SSRI antidepressants (think Zoloft and Prozac).

 

[boomerick]

You're a man. Being horny is your right, obligation, and duty. Revel in it or turn in your sword!

Over and Out.

 

[Demystify]

I don't think being horny is a good thing if I'm staying up to all hours of the night with insomnia while screaming and throwing stuff around my room.

 

[f283000]

1. Stop posting in this forum
2. Go out into the world and start approaching girls, get a girlfriend
3. profit

 

[kingsam]

a wank a day keeps the horny away...

(well clams you down enougth!)

 

[SmoothTalker]

Okay if it's that bad, can't you jerk off or something?

 

[Demystify]

Okay if it's that bad, can't you jerk off or something?

Well, jerking off usually makes it worse because seeing other people have sex makes me realize more that other people are having sex and I'm not. So I'm more horny because of that. I can't jerk off to pictures or my imagination, I have to have actual video porn.

 

[=VAGO=]

pssst redtube.com....

 

[Maxtro]

Try lesbian porn or solo girls stripping & masturbating.

BTW it's pretty bad that you need video stimulation to get off.

How often do you try to approach girls?

 

[kingsam]

seeing other people have sex makes me realize more that other people are having sex and I'm not.

YOU NEED TO CHILL OUT...
most single people do not have as much sex as you imagine...its easy to imagine every one else is getting loads if you are not ... BUT other average guys are most likely not getting as much as you are imagining they do ...

quick google shows the most average man to have 7 sexual partners / lifetime - if you say that one is a marrige, 2 are RL's of decent length , then 4 are casual/ONS. its NOT that much divided over a lifetime.
so say this average man gets hitched at 30y/o then the other 6 partners spread out over the years 18-30 isnt that much ...

 

[DJVladdy]

cutting off your balls would do it. Other than that - probably nothing. Horny is good - it means you are in good health.

 

[DonJuan11]

I don't think being horny is a good thing if I'm staying up to all hours of the night with insomnia while screaming and throwing stuff around my room.

Soldiers are dying left and right in wars, people are getting raped and tortured in third world countries everyday, entire villages get wiped out to genocide, children are born with AIDS, others are left to die in the street while others don't have enough to eat. One earthquake hits and 300,000 die in less than 30 seconds.

And you can't sleep and are screaming and throwing stuff around your room because you can't get laid?

Hello logic and perspective? I may need your brain for a while since I've obviously lost mine.

 

[Demystify]

YOU NEED TO CHILL OUT...
most single people do not have as much sex as you imagine...its easy to imagine every one else is getting loads if you are not ... BUT other average guys are most likely not getting as much as you are imagining they do ...

quick google shows the most average man to have 7 sexual partners / lifetime - if you say that one is a marrige, 2 are RL's of decent length , then 4 are casual/ONS. its NOT that much divided over a lifetime.
so say this average man gets hitched at 30y/o then the other 6 partners spread out over the years 18-30 isnt that much ...

Yeah, but when you know lots of guys who get a new girl every week, it's not very helpful. I had two roommates in college who constantly got several girls. My brother lost his virginity when was 13 or 14 (as opposed to 22 when I lost it) and girls look at him and instantly like him, he doesn't have to do any work. I have a cousin my age who constantly gets girls, he even got a one night stand with a girl I had been trying for for weeks.
I know there are statistics that show most guys don't get laid that often, but when you know more than a few guys that are outside those statistics it hurts. And I've tried being their wingman or learning from them, and that hasn't helped either.

 

[WC2]

Yeah, but when you know lots of guys who get a new girl every week, it's not very helpful. I had two roommates in college who constantly got several girls. My brother lost his virginity when was 13 or 14 (as opposed to 22 when I lost it) and girls look at him and instantly like him, he doesn't have to do any work. I have a cousin my age who constantly gets girls, he even got a one night stand with a girl I had been trying for for weeks.
I know there are statistics that show most guys don't get laid that often, but when you know more than a few guys that are outside those statistics it hurts. And I've tried being their wingman or learning from them, and that hasn't helped either.

The whole 'can't do' attitude isn't going to help.

You become who you imagine yourself to be. The person who you picture in your head, is the picture that you portray in reality. You write your own script.

As long as you think of yourself lesser than your friends, the lesser you will be. Your cousin got that one night stand with that girl because he already knew he could. He already pictured it in his mind. Do you think self-confidence is some big secret? To those who have it, it comes easy because it's so easy to understand. Stop caring what others think, and think of yourself how YOU want to be. To those who don't understand, it's extremely hard because they don't WANT to believe it.

Ha now as for being horny - Don't be less horny. You are a man bro. Rape and pillage. The one thing that women can't take away is our manhood (sometimes they can). Just be careful to not let your d!ck get you into trouble.

 

[Smartone84]

if you start getting laid this will help this problem a bit. I was the horniest kid in the universe and after i met this chick and started getting some on a constant basis my sex drive decreased noticeably.

not sure if thats the case for everyone, but im sure its common

 

[MeteorMash]

This is sooo true, I hate when I start benchpress or bench press with free weights and my **** will feel horny, not hard but it gets a rush of blood or something, happens almost every time I hate it.

Where the hell do you people work out at? a strip club?

That last thing place my body needs blood during a workout is the d1ck area

 

[sharkbeat]

Why would you want to be less horny? Being horny increases your testosterone level and makes you become more of a man. As a matter of fact, you should be horny all the time, just don't jack off.

 

[Demystify]

Why would you want to be less horny? Being horny increases your testosterone level and makes you become more of a man. As a matter of fact, you should be horny all the time, just don't jack off.

Because....

I don't think being horny is a good thing if I'm staying up to all hours of the night with insomnia while screaming and throwing stuff around my room.