“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
How to be less horny?
- Thread starter Demystify
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
SmoothTalker
Master Don Juan
Why do you want to be less horny? Enjoy it while you're young, and learn to channel that drive and energy into something productive instead.
Also, get laid. That's about the only thing that will make you think less about sex.
Anyway, in regard to your specific question, I don't know anything that would diminish your sex drive, other than certain SSRI antidepressants (think Zoloft and Prozac).
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
kingsam
Master Don Juan
(well clams you down enougth!)
SmoothTalker
Master Don Juan
Well, jerking off usually makes it worse because seeing other people have sex makes me realize more that other people are having sex and I'm not. So I'm more horny because of that. I can't jerk off to pictures or my imagination, I have to have actual video porn.SmoothTalker said:
=VAGO=
Don Juan
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
BTW it's pretty bad that you need video stimulation to get off.
How often do you try to approach girls?
kingsam
Master Don Juan
YOU NEED TO CHILL OUT...Demystify said:
most single people do not have as much sex as you imagine...its easy to imagine every one else is getting loads if you are not ... BUT other average guys are most likely not getting as much as you are imagining they do ...
quick google shows the most average man to have 7 sexual partners / lifetime - if you say that one is a marrige, 2 are RL's of decent length , then 4 are casual/ONS. its NOT that much divided over a lifetime.
so say this average man gets hitched at 30y/o then the other 6 partners spread out over the years 18-30 isnt that much ...
Soldiers are dying left and right in wars, people are getting raped and tortured in third world countries everyday, entire villages get wiped out to genocide, children are born with AIDS, others are left to die in the street while others don't have enough to eat. One earthquake hits and 300,000 die in less than 30 seconds.Demystify said:
And you can't sleep and are screaming and throwing stuff around your room because you can't get laid?
Hello logic and perspective? I may need your brain for a while since I've obviously lost mine.
Yeah, but when you know lots of guys who get a new girl every week, it's not very helpful. I had two roommates in college who constantly got several girls. My brother lost his virginity when was 13 or 14 (as opposed to 22 when I lost it) and girls look at him and instantly like him, he doesn't have to do any work. I have a cousin my age who constantly gets girls, he even got a one night stand with a girl I had been trying for for weeks.kingsam said:
I know there are statistics that show most guys don't get laid that often, but when you know more than a few guys that are outside those statistics it hurts. And I've tried being their wingman or learning from them, and that hasn't helped either.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
WC2
Master Don Juan
The whole 'can't do' attitude isn't going to help.Demystify said:
You become who you imagine yourself to be. The person who you picture in your head, is the picture that you portray in reality. You write your own script.
As long as you think of yourself lesser than your friends, the lesser you will be. Your cousin got that one night stand with that girl because he already knew he could. He already pictured it in his mind. Do you think self-confidence is some big secret? To those who have it, it comes easy because it's so easy to understand. Stop caring what others think, and think of yourself how YOU want to be. To those who don't understand, it's extremely hard because they don't WANT to believe it.
Ha now as for being horny - Don't be less horny. You are a man bro. Rape and pillage. The one thing that women can't take away is our manhood (sometimes they can). Just be careful to not let your d!ck get you into trouble.
Smartone84
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not sure if thats the case for everyone, but im sure its common
MeteorMash
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Where the hell do you people work out at? a strip club?San Jose California said:
That last thing place my body needs blood during a workout is the d1ck area
sharkbeat
Master Don Juan
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.