"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
How to be a real PUA....My Last Post
- Thread starter Mukester
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Mr. Delicious
Senior Don Juan
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The dude (Mukester) was spot on in his assessment of both this site and the game in general.
Guys come here and learn what AFCs and Don Juans are and turn their lives around. But THEN they sit in their computer chairs in a stupor for months (or even YEARS!!), too afraid to venture out of their current comfort zones.
So they KNOW that there's a better life out there, but then they never go for it.
Props to Mukester for posting this.
For every one thing we're ignorant of
A thousand more things beat the maze. (yeah)
You saw the apple hanging on the tree
But missed the orchard in your gaze!
ohhhhhhh..
Say something
Make us proud
Cast the first stone
Say any, anything at all
Make a move
Excerpt from "Make a Move" by Incubus
bad_samaritan
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What he is saying is very true in regards to PU, but also in regards to LIFE. In all avenues of life, be they artistic, financial or athletic, success in attaigning goals is all about changing your attitude INSIDE. *BE* who you want to be.
Damn.
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
awww, reminds me of myselfSaine said:I'm not a noob, been here longer than you have. Just different username.
I have amazingly high post/day count because I did it on purpose, the first day I spend 1 hr. on it, the following rest of the day I spend 15-30 min. on it, trying to make this acct as good. :0
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
THIAGO BRAZIL II
Don Juan
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