"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
How to be a real PUA....My Last Post
- Thread starter Mukester
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Mr. Delicious
Senior Don Juan
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The dude (Mukester) was spot on in his assessment of both this site and the game in general.
Guys come here and learn what AFCs and Don Juans are and turn their lives around. But THEN they sit in their computer chairs in a stupor for months (or even YEARS!!), too afraid to venture out of their current comfort zones.
So they KNOW that there's a better life out there, but then they never go for it.
Props to Mukester for posting this.
For every one thing we're ignorant of
A thousand more things beat the maze. (yeah)
You saw the apple hanging on the tree
But missed the orchard in your gaze!
ohhhhhhh..
Say something
Make us proud
Cast the first stone
Say any, anything at all
Make a move
Excerpt from "Make a Move" by Incubus
bad_samaritan
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What he is saying is very true in regards to PU, but also in regards to LIFE. In all avenues of life, be they artistic, financial or athletic, success in attaigning goals is all about changing your attitude INSIDE. *BE* who you want to be.
Damn.
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
awww, reminds me of myselfSaine said:I'm not a noob, been here longer than you have. Just different username.
I have amazingly high post/day count because I did it on purpose, the first day I spend 1 hr. on it, the following rest of the day I spend 15-30 min. on it, trying to make this acct as good. :0
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
THIAGO BRAZIL II
Don Juan
Lifeforce said: