"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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lbfan1638

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i'm surprised this is not in the bible..anyway the post and its reply by the threadstarter are gold...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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exactly, when im talking to girls.

99% of the time the stuff i say isnt stuff ive read on here or else where, it just comes to me naturally and its c+f.
 

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But what about if you get rejected alot and it doesnt get any easier. I get rejected alot and it just makes me more scared each time I talk to a girl and I get more nervous and mess up more often as i go along. :mad:
 

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Reflect on why you failed, then next time you won't repeat what you did wrong. The experiences will make you better that way.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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This thread should be permanently sticked and labelled a "Read this before you post" thread.

The dude (Mukester) was spot on in his assessment of both this site and the game in general.

Guys come here and learn what AFCs and Don Juans are and turn their lives around. But THEN they sit in their computer chairs in a stupor for months (or even YEARS!!), too afraid to venture out of their current comfort zones.

So they KNOW that there's a better life out there, but then they never go for it.

Props to Mukester for posting this.


For every one thing we're ignorant of
A thousand more things beat the maze. (yeah)
You saw the apple hanging on the tree
But missed the orchard in your gaze!

ohhhhhhh..

Say something
Make us proud
Cast the first stone
Say any, anything at all

Make a move


Excerpt from "Make a Move" by Incubus
 

tactic

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excellent post
 

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Damn, what a great post. I opened an account simply to register my approval.

What he is saying is very true in regards to PU, but also in regards to LIFE. In all avenues of life, be they artistic, financial or athletic, success in attaigning goals is all about changing your attitude INSIDE. *BE* who you want to be.

Damn.
 

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Saine said:
I'm not a noob, been here longer than you have. Just different username.

I have amazingly high post/day count because I did it on purpose, the first day I spend 1 hr. on it, the following rest of the day I spend 15-30 min. on it, trying to make this acct as good. :0 :)
awww, reminds me of myself:cool:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Lifeforce said:
. This thing happened to me this last weekend and man did it change my life. It thought me that the techniques are worthless without the attitude as you say.

L|feForc£


also happened here!

amazing feeling.

work on self confidence and things change immediatly on life - real life!
 
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