"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How to be a real PUA....My Last Post
- Thread starter Mukester
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Mr. Delicious
Senior Don Juan
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
The dude (Mukester) was spot on in his assessment of both this site and the game in general.
Guys come here and learn what AFCs and Don Juans are and turn their lives around. But THEN they sit in their computer chairs in a stupor for months (or even YEARS!!), too afraid to venture out of their current comfort zones.
So they KNOW that there's a better life out there, but then they never go for it.
Props to Mukester for posting this.
For every one thing we're ignorant of
A thousand more things beat the maze. (yeah)
You saw the apple hanging on the tree
But missed the orchard in your gaze!
ohhhhhhh..
Say something
Make us proud
Cast the first stone
Say any, anything at all
Make a move
Excerpt from "Make a Move" by Incubus
bad_samaritan
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What he is saying is very true in regards to PU, but also in regards to LIFE. In all avenues of life, be they artistic, financial or athletic, success in attaigning goals is all about changing your attitude INSIDE. *BE* who you want to be.
Damn.
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
awww, reminds me of myselfSaine said:I'm not a noob, been here longer than you have. Just different username.
I have amazingly high post/day count because I did it on purpose, the first day I spend 1 hr. on it, the following rest of the day I spend 15-30 min. on it, trying to make this acct as good. :0
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
THIAGO BRAZIL II
Don Juan
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