"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
how to avoid falling into scarcity mindset
- Thread starter backseatjuan
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
when i first posted on this site 2 years ago, i thought i was being a gent and a "man" (chasing) trying to put my family back together, with my ex. Too me it was responsible behaviour as we had a family........the advice on here was to do the total opposite(NC) of what i was doing , it blew my mind she was literally doing double back flips on my **** within 6 weeks...............it also sent me like the ISIS of RED PILL and abundance, its impossible for me to ever love a woman again,,therefore in this respect i am always in abundance, i am in a position now where hearing from a hotbod 8 means nothing to me, i just see right through her ......its quite sad really its a gift and a curse at the same time
backseatjuan
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Fck man, that's deep. What kind of weed you smoke.
Serenity
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I don't get how other guys are so incapable of maintaining the mindset even though there's a woman involved. Sure, you won't have physical abundance, but that's not a requirement for the mindset.
A mindset is a way of thinking. Some guys depend on external factors, others like me do not.
Abundance isn't about dehumanizing women or complete inability to attach. Abundance is the ability to detach when necessary.
You have a twisted view IMO.
Serenity
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Meh, only from the perspective of those who do not have it and strongly desire it while thinking it's so damn hard, it's not.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
To me it's trusting the process. If you have kept to the DJ mindset and routines in the past and it's yielded good results why wouldn't it again. It is true that good women become rarer as they age. but statistically there are still so many women that you just have to keep swinging. And I've enjoyed all my women on some level even if it's just blessed relief to know your knowledge saved you taking a bullet.
power of the puusy, just never worked with william the conqueror