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I think it's inevitable unless you have dehumanized women or don't attach emotionally. One woman will outperform the rest. Yeah you have periods of total abundance where no one stands out also but you will connect eventually and the sense of loss is there, even though you know you will land on your feet ultimately.
 

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when i first posted on this site 2 years ago, i thought i was being a gent and a "man" (chasing) trying to put my family back together, with my ex. Too me it was responsible behaviour as we had a family........the advice on here was to do the total opposite(NC) of what i was doing , it blew my mind she was literally doing double back flips on my **** within 6 weeks...............it also sent me like the ISIS of RED PILL and abundance, its impossible for me to ever love a woman again,,therefore in this respect i am always in abundance, i am in a position now where hearing from a hotbod 8 means nothing to me, i just see right through her ......its quite sad really its a gift and a curse at the same time
 

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I think it's inevitable unless you have dehumanized women or don't attach emotionally. One woman will outperform the rest. Yeah you have periods of total abundance where no one stands out also but you will connect eventually and the sense of loss is there, even though you know you will land on your feet ultimately.
Fck man, that's deep. What kind of weed you smoke.
 

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I think it's inevitable unless you have dehumanized women or don't attach emotionally. One woman will outperform the rest. Yeah you have periods of total abundance where no one stands out also but you will connect eventually and the sense of loss is there, even though you know you will land on your feet ultimately.
I don't get how other guys are so incapable of maintaining the mindset even though there's a woman involved. Sure, you won't have physical abundance, but that's not a requirement for the mindset.

A mindset is a way of thinking. Some guys depend on external factors, others like me do not.

Abundance isn't about dehumanizing women or complete inability to attach. Abundance is the ability to detach when necessary.

You have a twisted view IMO.
 
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I don't get how other guys are so incapable of maintaining the mindset even though there's a woman involved. Sure, you won't have physical abundance, but that's not a requirement for the mindset.

A mindset is a way of thinking. Some guys depend on external factors, others like me do not.

Abundance isn't about dehumanizing women or complete inability to attach. Abundance is the ability to detach when necessary.

You have a twisted view IMO.
Every single person has that ability except those that commit suicide over breakups lol. you're patting yourself on the back over nothing. We are talking about something that is much higher than normal human experience when we talk about abundance mentality.
 

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We are talking about something that is much higher than normal human experience when we talk about abundance mentality.
Meh, only from the perspective of those who do not have it and strongly desire it while thinking it's so damn hard, it's not.
 

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Meh, only from the perspective of those who do not have it and strongly desire it while thinking it's so damn hard, it's not.
Describe something other than what we all have lol. Give me a break, the egos here.

"Abundance is the ability to detach when necessary."
 

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To me it's trusting the process. If you have kept to the DJ mindset and routines in the past and it's yielded good results why wouldn't it again. It is true that good women become rarer as they age. but statistically there are still so many women that you just have to keep swinging. And I've enjoyed all my women on some level even if it's just blessed relief to know your knowledge saved you taking a bullet.
 

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I don't get how other guys are so incapable of maintaining the mindset even though there's a woman involved
power of the puusy, just never worked with william the conqueror
 
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IMO, the scarcity mindset dies only when you have no fear or hesitation whatsoever in being alone.

Quite simple.

For me it’s not about how many women are in the rotation, even when there are none, or how well I connect with or lack depth with each at all, when there is only one or several.

Scarcity is the fear of being alone.

The fear of being alone compromises standards. It increases tolerance for things that should not be tolerated. It brings thirst in droughts. It ruins everything a man needs to have a handle on, not just to avoid the scarcity mindset, but to build up the pillars of abundance.
 

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IMO, the scarcity mindset dies only when you have no fear or hesitation whatsoever in being alone.

Quite simple.

For me it’s not about how many women are in the rotation, even when there are none, or how well I connect with or lack depth with each at all, when there is only one or several.

Scarcity is the fear of being alone.

The fear of being alone compromises standards. It increases tolerance for things that should not be tolerated. It brings thirst in droughts. It ruins everything a man needs to have a handle on, not just to avoid the scarcity mindset, but to build up the pillars of abundance.
I know many an acquaintance that can't tell the woman to take a hike because the fear having none or not a belief in their own attraction to replace her. Ties into being alone.
The funny part is a lot of these guys complain not being able to get alone time.
 
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