How the hell did this guy managed to do it

[Clueless2k16]

my life is home - work - home - cafe - home

 

[MrWood]

as a transplant to a foreign country, I actually have no friends to hang out with

wrong excuse

 

[MrWood]

have you ever said hello to a woman walking past you in that cafe?
ever said "cool shoes" to the girl in front of you?
ever said "whats the deal with XYZ?" to the cashier?

 

[Clueless2k16]

as a transplant to a foreign country, I actually have no friends to hang out with

wrong excuse

what do you do then?

 

[Clueless2k16]

have you ever said hello to a woman walking past you in that cafe?
ever said "cool shoes" to the girl in front of you?
ever said "whats the deal with XYZ?" to the cashier?

its just a small café where i go just to read the newspaper and grab a cup of coffee or a beer. not the bar with ambient music type.

 

[MrWood]

and you didnt answer my questions... did you.

I ASKED YOU A QUESTION

i do/go things I just mentioned when I go for coffee, shopping, eating out
I smile at nearly every woman I see
If I had a cafe I could go to everyday at the same time, I would have too many dates.

I do not waste my time on anything under HB8 (except making all girls smile and blush at cafes no matter how hot or old)

I am not prolific in anyway, my partner count is my age and 20of those years were in LTRs/Marriage
and no, I dont get pity fvcks because of my floppy ugly arm.

 

[MrWiggles]

I was feeling a little down today but now I feel fkin fantastic about my life lol

 

[Clueless2k16]

I was feeling a little down today but now I feel fkin fantastic about my life lol

why? by seeing a bald hog with a woman or because im a bald loser that cant get any?

 

[Tictac]

why? by seeing a bald hog with a woman or because im a bald loser that cant get any?

With what's going on in your head, you wouldn't be getting any if you were Brad Pitt.

 

[CuddleJunkie]

stop wasting your time with this troll. I will even use this time refreshing FB before answering him.

 

[gonewiththefire]

Hi Clueless

looks don't matter so much if you develop your personality and character. People only give a thing about you if you can provide them some kind of value. Looks can only take you so far before your personality shows.

hope it helps!

gonewiththefire

 

[Clueless2k16]

i dont know im average looking and never had a chance. also the women i attract are either too old (late 40's, early 50's) or not attractive at all (i'm sure 99% of you guys wouldnt date them unless you were really really desperate) and i have my standards. if it doesnt interest me even if that means free sex i wont date her

why do these old ladies think im dating material for them?, creeps me out and its also strange i'm into 35/45 age group. maybe im a magnet for them for god knows what reason

 

[JohnChops]

If you are truly looking for the answer, the article linked below spells it out quite well, in my opinion.

htmlhttp://www.themodernman.com/dating/articles/how-do-average-guys-get-hot-women.html

Whether you choose to focus on the actual content in the article or the pictures (in the way you did here), will speak volumes about your intent.

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Sticky this article now.

 

[Yewki]

having no friend circle / social life

Is it really any surprise you're not a hit with the ladies, considering you have no social exposure and probably very little social skills?

You also place way too much emphasis on "finding a woman" ... as if that's going to solve your problems and you're going to live happily ever after or something. Spoiler alert: you won't.

Here's some advice that I'm sure will go wasted, but at least I can say I tried. Get into a hobby that you're passionate about and then seek out other people who share that passion. Work on developing a social circle, the rest will follow

 

[BeExcellent]

How the hell did he do it?

Easy.

He believed he could.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

I would ask you why you are so whimpy and why you have such low self esteem. But I realized you would say its because people called you ugly. Now I have to ask you why people called you ugly. Was it just to insult you because you perhaps did something the annoyed the everloving piss out of them? Was it because they eere jusy naturally mean people trying to be cool? Have you ever beaten the crap out of someone for pissing you off enough? I asked this last time and you did not respond. You probably never got into a fight in your life then. This just shows you how wimpy of a person you are. How emasculate and how much of a pushover you are. You are anybody's b!tch. And because of this, women are bot attracted to you. Grow a pair and toughen up. If you really think that you are ugly, then fix it. Don't get cosmetic/plastic surgery, that **** is unnatractive to chicks too. Just workout, get a ripped body, wear some nicer clothes, chew a **** ton of gum to enhance your jawline and chew hard, brush your teeth at least twice a day, eat healthier and sleep a little more if you can, repeat incantations in your head that are positive (like 'I have the greatest luck in the world' or 'I am masculine' 'I am strong and powerful' or 'I am tough', just take out all negative thoughts), if you arent bald get a new hairstyle, get your eyevrows done (not noticeably so, but just to get them to look better. I personally don't do this but I just don't really care for it), and fix your fvcking body language. Always being slouched and closed off instead of being open and embracing is pathetic, body language is huge. Also, the incantations are also very important, it's the only way that you can reprogram your brain without using drugs or alcohol. You are pretty old so I'm not sure if you might be able to, especially because adults are a lot more stubborn than younger kids (crystallized intelligence vs fluid intelligence), but you gotta at least try. I was like you once, if not worse. It took me 2 years to completely get out of that slump by fixing my mindset. And now I'm never going back to being what I once was. You shoupd fix yourself too.

'As you think, you shall become' - Pook.

 

[CMNILS87]

The fact that you care so much is the problem