You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Well I can understand her not remembering me since I never spoke to her and just friended her since I met her at a friends party. I figure why not give it one more shot, best case I get something worst case i'm where i'm at now.ZenGodMod said:That was a whole load of trash talk!
You even entertained that!?
If someone ever ask who you are again, just know you haven't made a good first impression! Don't bother!
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Try asking for starters.TheBaconator said:Well I tried the ****y response but I think it came off as too much
Me:You don't see the name at the top of my page? Think I met you a long time ago. How bout you gimme ya sn.
Her:yeah i do but do u think ur the only *** in this world obviously i still dunno by the name i didnt recognize u so i asked duhh lol maybe from *** because im her friend
Me:Well yea it's *** and I prolly met you at a party at *** back in the day.
No response from her after that. I think she has interest because why else would she respond in the first place? If she doesn't get back to me imma make one more go at it, nothing to lose, any suggestions how I should try again to get sn/number? Like what I should say.