Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Well I can understand her not remembering me since I never spoke to her and just friended her since I met her at a friends party. I figure why not give it one more shot, best case I get something worst case i'm where i'm at now.ZenGodMod said:That was a whole load of trash talk!
You even entertained that!?
If someone ever ask who you are again, just know you haven't made a good first impression! Don't bother!
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Try asking for starters.TheBaconator said:Well I tried the ****y response but I think it came off as too much
Me:You don't see the name at the top of my page? Think I met you a long time ago. How bout you gimme ya sn.
Her:yeah i do but do u think ur the only *** in this world obviously i still dunno by the name i didnt recognize u so i asked duhh lol maybe from *** because im her friend
Me:Well yea it's *** and I prolly met you at a party at *** back in the day.
No response from her after that. I think she has interest because why else would she respond in the first place? If she doesn't get back to me imma make one more go at it, nothing to lose, any suggestions how I should try again to get sn/number? Like what I should say.