You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Well I can understand her not remembering me since I never spoke to her and just friended her since I met her at a friends party. I figure why not give it one more shot, best case I get something worst case i'm where i'm at now.ZenGodMod said:That was a whole load of trash talk!
You even entertained that!?
If someone ever ask who you are again, just know you haven't made a good first impression! Don't bother!
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Try asking for starters.TheBaconator said:Well I tried the ****y response but I think it came off as too much
Me:You don't see the name at the top of my page? Think I met you a long time ago. How bout you gimme ya sn.
Her:yeah i do but do u think ur the only *** in this world obviously i still dunno by the name i didnt recognize u so i asked duhh lol maybe from *** because im her friend
Me:Well yea it's *** and I prolly met you at a party at *** back in the day.
No response from her after that. I think she has interest because why else would she respond in the first place? If she doesn't get back to me imma make one more go at it, nothing to lose, any suggestions how I should try again to get sn/number? Like what I should say.