Do you still feel a strong attraction to her after what she shared with you? To be honest that would kill any sense of attraction I had for her. Argue that it's not her fault all you like, I even agree but I wouldn't want to deal with that baggage.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
How often do you meet a woman you are REALLY attracted to? Just met the latest.....
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
That doesn't sound like the type of attraction I thought you were talking about. There are many girls/women whom I would love to just have sex with. But what I thought you were talking about was the type of attraction that could lead to one-itis if you weren't careful.
Well, my attraction was formulated from a brief social interaction followed by watching her grind on another chick the rest of the night, so it isn't as if I was ready to sell my car to buy her a ringcomote said:
Nah, it's a physical thing. I'm sure most men would fukk her in about a second, but she isn't a "10" or anything. There's just something about her look that does it for me. And thats a surprise since she isn't a brunette.
Now I just have to figure out a way to hit it that won't involve me having to take out a restraining order :nervous:
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NOTE: ever see someone again, find them attractive and think, wow, why havent i noticed them before.. That is because while your in your honeymoon state you have tunnel vision..
well thats one theory... i seem to be also on a 1.5 to 2 year as well... I used to think its because im picky and it takes that long for me to find someone (i.e. numbers).... but the bio stuff really seams to make ence
I dont remember if it was on the discovery chanel or one of my bio classes. But I remember them saying there is a natural mating cycle, which takes about 1.5 years... and explains why after this mark a lot of relationships go sour.. Evolutionary speaking you need to be with women long enough to help her through her pregnancy and early baby development.. i.e. during breast feeding when she has hard time getting food on own and needs to attend to babys. so babys survived when father there to help, and genetics which such traits got passed on... it is why if you and other mate dont have much in common, after 1.5 years honeymoon is over..STR8UP said:
NOTE: ever see someone again, find them attractive and think, wow, why havent i noticed them before.. That is because while your in your honeymoon state you have tunnel vision..
well thats one theory... i seem to be also on a 1.5 to 2 year as well... I used to think its because im picky and it takes that long for me to find someone (i.e. numbers).... but the bio stuff really seams to make ence