You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You wear a vest? Interesting. I always thought plad shirts, dark jeans, and nice shoes were enough.mangotot said:I get checked out a lot especially when dressed nice. If I am dresses like this: http://www.laindiefashion.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/download-1.jpg I get checked out a lot (that picture is not me). Always wondered if it's the outfit or me they are looking at.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You have accessrize with things like chains, bracelets, scarfs, belts etc. Sometimes chicks smile at me and sometimes as I walk by an attractive woman I look at her, she look at me and passes, 10 yards down the street I stop and turn around to look at her and she has done exactly the same. Until a year ago I didn't realise the power of being in shape and dressing sharp. An average face will do, there is no need for model looks. During the daytime even if I open a very hot chicks badly as in too quiet voice etc they still respond well. In the past these same women would just walk past even if I opened really well.Frayzer said:You wear a vest? Interesting. I always thought plad shirts, dark jeans, and nice shoes were enough.
Where do you buy your clothes at?mangotot said:You have accessrize with things like chains, bracelets, scarfs, belts etc. Sometimes chicks smile at me and sometimes as I walk by an attractive woman I look at her, she look at me and passes, 10 yards down the street I stop and turn around to look at her and she has done exactly the same. Until a year ago I didn't realise the power of being in shape and dressing sharp. An average face will do, there is no need for model looks. During the daytime even if I open a very hot chicks badly as in too quiet voice etc they still respond well. In the past these same women would just walk past even if I opened really well.
I must get checked out at least 30 times a day when dressed well. Admittidly this is in the busier areas where there are lots of people.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Mid end designer like Hugo boss, Calvin Klein and All Saints.Frayzer said:Where do you buy your clothes at?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.