"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How Often Do Women Check You Out?
- Thread starter dannycc
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Skyline
Master Don Juan
You wear a vest? Interesting. I always thought plad shirts, dark jeans, and nice shoes were enough.mangotot said:
SeymourCake
Banned
- Joined
- Apr 9, 2010
- Messages
- 1,523
- Reaction score
- 363
At college maybe 2-4 times in the hallway. I always go directly to my classroom. ~2 times in class.
At the gym, maybe 3 times a session.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Happened three times today... nothing is going to happen, two were married (I'm going to start another thread on this), and the other was promising, but I noticed her blouse had a big ol' hole in it. Chicks wearing unservicable clothes is a show stopper for me.
In2theGame
Master Don Juan
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Skyline
Master Don Juan
I haven't been around people my age often either so the only time I get glances from my age group is when I'm at a party or something. I'm probably going to be attractive to some people when I go to college this year, I honestly miss approaching and all of that.
You have accessrize with things like chains, bracelets, scarfs, belts etc. Sometimes chicks smile at me and sometimes as I walk by an attractive woman I look at her, she look at me and passes, 10 yards down the street I stop and turn around to look at her and she has done exactly the same. Until a year ago I didn't realise the power of being in shape and dressing sharp. An average face will do, there is no need for model looks. During the daytime even if I open a very hot chicks badly as in too quiet voice etc they still respond well. In the past these same women would just walk past even if I opened really well.Frayzer said:
I must get checked out at least 30 times a day when dressed well. Admittidly this is in the busier areas where there are lots of people.
Skyline
Master Don Juan
Where do you buy your clothes at?mangotot said:
BrainDamage92
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 30, 2015
- Messages
- 578
- Reaction score
- 51
But too many people are jealous, little souls, both male and female, when you're young and good looking, the old, short, fat, bold, with crooked teeth cant help but hate you. Its only natural. And while most people have some obvious physical unatractiveness (like crooked teeth, a girl with abit of moustache etc..) I dont have any. I dont give a flying fuk about other people's complexes and mental issues, couse I know this **** is contageos. Call me sociopathic, but Its what I believe in. And I know how shallow looks is, its only for first impression, I know what is is to be with a girl you know deep down is not right for you, but staying with her couse shes drop dead gorgeous. So looks (not the way we are dressed) is **** and dont mean ****.
I see people doing so many things to improve their GENETICALLY PREDETRMINED looks I dont get it. BUT THE WAY YOU DRESS IS IMPORTANT. I dont suffer from vanity, shirts, jeans meh, but I like it when I wear nice shoes, I always buy expensive ones, but very rarely, I like it when my feet are comfortable, I know how much trouble a fuked up pair of shoes can bring. Shoes are important for anyone. I need only one pair, but may they be comfy. I hate shopping for clothes, I have a little shop in my hood, the sailslady is a friend, I go in, she tells me, oh this whill suit you and is always right. Shops with 200000000000000 diff things are female territory I think.
I also like it when I wear suits, couse my social status is not of a person who would wear a suit. Id like to become the kind a person who sleeps in a goddamn pijama suit. If I had the dough and the job for it, I would definately suit up. Suits are nice ok? Now I just need to become filthy rich. Couse the best shot atm is working somewhere with a formal uniform
Also, some people, both male an female have general understanding of what goes with what, colors and all this. I think its good to appreciate this in people. Couse some would wear a blazer with sweatpants, Ive actually seen it.
I always give compliments to people who I see made a note of combining their clothes correctly, you can see it, a girl who wears a light blue scarf and has painted her nails with the same color, or a dude whos colors on his woolen hat go with his shirt, I always complement people who took the time to do this.
And when I see a friend wearing the blazer+sweatpants combo or what not, I tell him he looks like ****, if he gets offended, then so be it. He can take a note or ignore it, same as me. Freedom of speech motherfukers.
And cut the crap with the faggot haircuts, wear your 5 oclock shadow if you like it and dont let any "fashionable" mofo, that stinks of a french *****, but haven used soap in a week to make fun of you. Better take a bath then bathe with perfume. But men became faggots :{
Dont shave your legs and arms and chest. I never did it, but then again Im not chipmunk hairy, but with age hair becomes more, no worries. If you shave the ****, it looks bigger + it dont stink like **** so Im all in on this one.
And again, if youre a plumber, but dress like a college professor, it wont work. But you can still look like a person who has taste an is OK, no need to be extravagant.
Also dont listen to me I have nothing to do at work so sosuave time
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Moy_1974
Don Juan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.