Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You wear a vest? Interesting. I always thought plad shirts, dark jeans, and nice shoes were enough.mangotot said:I get checked out a lot especially when dressed nice. If I am dresses like this: http://www.laindiefashion.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/download-1.jpg I get checked out a lot (that picture is not me). Always wondered if it's the outfit or me they are looking at.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
You have accessrize with things like chains, bracelets, scarfs, belts etc. Sometimes chicks smile at me and sometimes as I walk by an attractive woman I look at her, she look at me and passes, 10 yards down the street I stop and turn around to look at her and she has done exactly the same. Until a year ago I didn't realise the power of being in shape and dressing sharp. An average face will do, there is no need for model looks. During the daytime even if I open a very hot chicks badly as in too quiet voice etc they still respond well. In the past these same women would just walk past even if I opened really well.Frayzer said:You wear a vest? Interesting. I always thought plad shirts, dark jeans, and nice shoes were enough.
Where do you buy your clothes at?mangotot said:You have accessrize with things like chains, bracelets, scarfs, belts etc. Sometimes chicks smile at me and sometimes as I walk by an attractive woman I look at her, she look at me and passes, 10 yards down the street I stop and turn around to look at her and she has done exactly the same. Until a year ago I didn't realise the power of being in shape and dressing sharp. An average face will do, there is no need for model looks. During the daytime even if I open a very hot chicks badly as in too quiet voice etc they still respond well. In the past these same women would just walk past even if I opened really well.
I must get checked out at least 30 times a day when dressed well. Admittidly this is in the busier areas where there are lots of people.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Mid end designer like Hugo boss, Calvin Klein and All Saints.Frayzer said:Where do you buy your clothes at?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.