"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How Often Do Women Check You Out?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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Skyline
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You wear a vest? Interesting. I always thought plad shirts, dark jeans, and nice shoes were enough.mangotot said:
SeymourCake
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At college maybe 2-4 times in the hallway. I always go directly to my classroom. ~2 times in class.
At the gym, maybe 3 times a session.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Happened three times today... nothing is going to happen, two were married (I'm going to start another thread on this), and the other was promising, but I noticed her blouse had a big ol' hole in it. Chicks wearing unservicable clothes is a show stopper for me.
In2theGame
Master Don Juan
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Skyline
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I haven't been around people my age often either so the only time I get glances from my age group is when I'm at a party or something. I'm probably going to be attractive to some people when I go to college this year, I honestly miss approaching and all of that.
You have accessrize with things like chains, bracelets, scarfs, belts etc. Sometimes chicks smile at me and sometimes as I walk by an attractive woman I look at her, she look at me and passes, 10 yards down the street I stop and turn around to look at her and she has done exactly the same. Until a year ago I didn't realise the power of being in shape and dressing sharp. An average face will do, there is no need for model looks. During the daytime even if I open a very hot chicks badly as in too quiet voice etc they still respond well. In the past these same women would just walk past even if I opened really well.Frayzer said:
I must get checked out at least 30 times a day when dressed well. Admittidly this is in the busier areas where there are lots of people.
Skyline
Master Don Juan
Where do you buy your clothes at?mangotot said:
BrainDamage92
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But too many people are jealous, little souls, both male and female, when you're young and good looking, the old, short, fat, bold, with crooked teeth cant help but hate you. Its only natural. And while most people have some obvious physical unatractiveness (like crooked teeth, a girl with abit of moustache etc..) I dont have any. I dont give a flying fuk about other people's complexes and mental issues, couse I know this **** is contageos. Call me sociopathic, but Its what I believe in. And I know how shallow looks is, its only for first impression, I know what is is to be with a girl you know deep down is not right for you, but staying with her couse shes drop dead gorgeous. So looks (not the way we are dressed) is **** and dont mean ****.
I see people doing so many things to improve their GENETICALLY PREDETRMINED looks I dont get it. BUT THE WAY YOU DRESS IS IMPORTANT. I dont suffer from vanity, shirts, jeans meh, but I like it when I wear nice shoes, I always buy expensive ones, but very rarely, I like it when my feet are comfortable, I know how much trouble a fuked up pair of shoes can bring. Shoes are important for anyone. I need only one pair, but may they be comfy. I hate shopping for clothes, I have a little shop in my hood, the sailslady is a friend, I go in, she tells me, oh this whill suit you and is always right. Shops with 200000000000000 diff things are female territory I think.
I also like it when I wear suits, couse my social status is not of a person who would wear a suit. Id like to become the kind a person who sleeps in a goddamn pijama suit. If I had the dough and the job for it, I would definately suit up. Suits are nice ok? Now I just need to become filthy rich. Couse the best shot atm is working somewhere with a formal uniform
Also, some people, both male an female have general understanding of what goes with what, colors and all this. I think its good to appreciate this in people. Couse some would wear a blazer with sweatpants, Ive actually seen it.
I always give compliments to people who I see made a note of combining their clothes correctly, you can see it, a girl who wears a light blue scarf and has painted her nails with the same color, or a dude whos colors on his woolen hat go with his shirt, I always complement people who took the time to do this.
And when I see a friend wearing the blazer+sweatpants combo or what not, I tell him he looks like ****, if he gets offended, then so be it. He can take a note or ignore it, same as me. Freedom of speech motherfukers.
And cut the crap with the faggot haircuts, wear your 5 oclock shadow if you like it and dont let any "fashionable" mofo, that stinks of a french *****, but haven used soap in a week to make fun of you. Better take a bath then bathe with perfume. But men became faggots :{
Dont shave your legs and arms and chest. I never did it, but then again Im not chipmunk hairy, but with age hair becomes more, no worries. If you shave the ****, it looks bigger + it dont stink like **** so Im all in on this one.
And again, if youre a plumber, but dress like a college professor, it wont work. But you can still look like a person who has taste an is OK, no need to be extravagant.
Also dont listen to me I have nothing to do at work so sosuave time
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Moy_1974
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.