"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How much older are you guys willing to go

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Big Pappy

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I'm now dating a woman a year older than me and I'm loving it.
She's more than ready to do anything sexually and do it anywhere. She cooks well has her own friends and her own life.

She told me that she can't hang out in the pub with me and gave me a key to get into her place when I'm ready to leave the pub.

I can't see this happening with a younger woman.

In any event, if you're asking a question about what's too young, the answers vary with individuals. If you're uncomfortable, forget about her and move on.
 

Maxtro

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Originally posted by Falcon Eye
In my view every man should experience an older woman at least once, preferably many times:D, before we settle down.
I can agree to that ;)

The oldest woman I've been with is 19 years older than me, heh she's even a few years older than my step-mother. But she was exceptional in the umm, SUV.

At this point though it was only a one night stand, until I can see her again. I'm currently waiting for her call tonight to confirm our time together for tomorrow.

If I can end up seeing her at least once a week I believe that I can learn so much on how to be a better lover. It’s like my own personal Sex Ed teacher but with hands on experience :p
 

Genghis Juan

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For the lower part of the age range I accept, take your age, divide by 2 and add 7. For me that would be 21yo. So I would date girls from 21 to about 29 tops.
 

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I like that formula Genghis Juan and it works both ways to, just multiply age by two and subtract 7.

I got a lower age limit of 18 and an upper age maximum of 37. I can see myself dating 18 year olds and in fact I’m pursuing one right now, but I won’t date anybody above 24, I’ll have sex with older women though.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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