"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How much older are you guys willing to go

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Big Pappy

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I'm now dating a woman a year older than me and I'm loving it.
She's more than ready to do anything sexually and do it anywhere. She cooks well has her own friends and her own life.

She told me that she can't hang out in the pub with me and gave me a key to get into her place when I'm ready to leave the pub.

I can't see this happening with a younger woman.

In any event, if you're asking a question about what's too young, the answers vary with individuals. If you're uncomfortable, forget about her and move on.
 

Maxtro

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Originally posted by Falcon Eye
In my view every man should experience an older woman at least once, preferably many times:D, before we settle down.
I can agree to that ;)

The oldest woman I've been with is 19 years older than me, heh she's even a few years older than my step-mother. But she was exceptional in the umm, SUV.

At this point though it was only a one night stand, until I can see her again. I'm currently waiting for her call tonight to confirm our time together for tomorrow.

If I can end up seeing her at least once a week I believe that I can learn so much on how to be a better lover. It’s like my own personal Sex Ed teacher but with hands on experience :p
 

Genghis Juan

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For the lower part of the age range I accept, take your age, divide by 2 and add 7. For me that would be 21yo. So I would date girls from 21 to about 29 tops.
 

Maxtro

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I like that formula Genghis Juan and it works both ways to, just multiply age by two and subtract 7.

I got a lower age limit of 18 and an upper age maximum of 37. I can see myself dating 18 year olds and in fact I’m pursuing one right now, but I won’t date anybody above 24, I’ll have sex with older women though.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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