Aztec
Master Don Juan
I'm 33 and date 20-27 year olds.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
How much older are you guys willing to go
- Thread starter Falcon Eye
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I'm now dating a woman a year older than me and I'm loving it.
She's more than ready to do anything sexually and do it anywhere. She cooks well has her own friends and her own life.
She told me that she can't hang out in the pub with me and gave me a key to get into her place when I'm ready to leave the pub.
I can't see this happening with a younger woman.
In any event, if you're asking a question about what's too young, the answers vary with individuals. If you're uncomfortable, forget about her and move on.
She's more than ready to do anything sexually and do it anywhere. She cooks well has her own friends and her own life.
She told me that she can't hang out in the pub with me and gave me a key to get into her place when I'm ready to leave the pub.
I can't see this happening with a younger woman.
In any event, if you're asking a question about what's too young, the answers vary with individuals. If you're uncomfortable, forget about her and move on.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
I can agree to thatOriginally posted by Falcon Eye
In my view every man should experience an older woman at least once, preferably many times, before we settle down.
The oldest woman I've been with is 19 years older than me, heh she's even a few years older than my step-mother. But she was exceptional in the umm, SUV.
At this point though it was only a one night stand, until I can see her again. I'm currently waiting for her call tonight to confirm our time together for tomorrow.
If I can end up seeing her at least once a week I believe that I can learn so much on how to be a better lover. It’s like my own personal Sex Ed teacher but with hands on experience
Genghis Juan
Senior Don Juan
For the lower part of the age range I accept, take your age, divide by 2 and add 7. For me that would be 21yo. So I would date girls from 21 to about 29 tops.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
I like that formula Genghis Juan and it works both ways to, just multiply age by two and subtract 7.
I got a lower age limit of 18 and an upper age maximum of 37. I can see myself dating 18 year olds and in fact I’m pursuing one right now, but I won’t date anybody above 24, I’ll have sex with older women though.
I got a lower age limit of 18 and an upper age maximum of 37. I can see myself dating 18 year olds and in fact I’m pursuing one right now, but I won’t date anybody above 24, I’ll have sex with older women though.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.