"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How much older are you guys willing to go

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Big Pappy

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I'm now dating a woman a year older than me and I'm loving it.
She's more than ready to do anything sexually and do it anywhere. She cooks well has her own friends and her own life.

She told me that she can't hang out in the pub with me and gave me a key to get into her place when I'm ready to leave the pub.

I can't see this happening with a younger woman.

In any event, if you're asking a question about what's too young, the answers vary with individuals. If you're uncomfortable, forget about her and move on.
 

Maxtro

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Originally posted by Falcon Eye
In my view every man should experience an older woman at least once, preferably many times:D, before we settle down.
I can agree to that ;)

The oldest woman I've been with is 19 years older than me, heh she's even a few years older than my step-mother. But she was exceptional in the umm, SUV.

At this point though it was only a one night stand, until I can see her again. I'm currently waiting for her call tonight to confirm our time together for tomorrow.

If I can end up seeing her at least once a week I believe that I can learn so much on how to be a better lover. It’s like my own personal Sex Ed teacher but with hands on experience :p
 

Genghis Juan

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For the lower part of the age range I accept, take your age, divide by 2 and add 7. For me that would be 21yo. So I would date girls from 21 to about 29 tops.
 

Maxtro

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I like that formula Genghis Juan and it works both ways to, just multiply age by two and subtract 7.

I got a lower age limit of 18 and an upper age maximum of 37. I can see myself dating 18 year olds and in fact I’m pursuing one right now, but I won’t date anybody above 24, I’ll have sex with older women though.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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