"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How much a month do you spend on alcohol?

Levex

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Maybe around $80 a month on average. Usually purchases consist of Bud Light, some wine, and some liqueur like Disaronno or Bailey's.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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sheeet I just calculated what Ive spent on alco since december and the figure is approaching $1k in about a month and a half.

I was in thailand though so I was partying nearly every night.
 

diablo

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I've been fortunate... when I was younger, I spent a buttload on booze. For the past 3 years, I worked in the club scene so I got free booze 24/7. For the past year, I've been uberconcerned with fitness and getting in shape so my alcohol consumption has dropped significantly.

If I had to guess, in an average month I spend about $40. If I know I'm going to drink, I have drinks at my place before I go out/get picked up (no DWI for me!)... it's a lot more cost-efficient, as then you just go out and maintain, not drink to get drunk.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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$0 just don't really wanna drink.
 

PRMoon

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I spend alot on alcohol. I stock my bar at least once a week with premium vodkas, gins, whiskeys, bourbons, rums, tequilas, etc etc. *Sigh* Again I have to cite my las vegas lifestyle. I enteratian alot of people at my house and my wet dry bar takes a hit at least once a month. I don't know how anybody else lives but out here a nice house, car and good entertainment will bring the stars a little bit close to you.

When I go out I tip out my bartenders very well and that goes a long way as well. I meet new people and get "free" shots. I say "free" because I paid for them several times over on my previous visits and having that money show when it counts is a huge victory for me.

Don't get me wrong though...I work two jobs and make six figures a year in my fair lady vegas. If I was making 30-40K a year and didn't have any growth prospects in site, I'd spend 10 dollars a week on ten high wiskey and have the most bottom of the barrel girls at my house ever week, believe it!
 
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