"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
How much a month do you spend on alcohol?
- Thread starter Ricky
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
and on a month i spend 30-40 $ .
Im not heavy drinker . i just drink to get in mood , to get warmed up
.Not even near drunk . NEVER
diablo
Master Don Juan
If I had to guess, in an average month I spend about $40. If I know I'm going to drink, I have drinks at my place before I go out/get picked up (no DWI for me!)... it's a lot more cost-efficient, as then you just go out and maintain, not drink to get drunk.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
When I go out I tip out my bartenders very well and that goes a long way as well. I meet new people and get "free" shots. I say "free" because I paid for them several times over on my previous visits and having that money show when it counts is a huge victory for me.
Don't get me wrong though...I work two jobs and make six figures a year in my fair lady vegas. If I was making 30-40K a year and didn't have any growth prospects in site, I'd spend 10 dollars a week on ten high wiskey and have the most bottom of the barrel girls at my house ever week, believe it!