"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How much a month do you spend on alcohol?

Levex

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Maybe around $80 a month on average. Usually purchases consist of Bud Light, some wine, and some liqueur like Disaronno or Bailey's.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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sheeet I just calculated what Ive spent on alco since december and the figure is approaching $1k in about a month and a half.

I was in thailand though so I was partying nearly every night.
 

diablo

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I've been fortunate... when I was younger, I spent a buttload on booze. For the past 3 years, I worked in the club scene so I got free booze 24/7. For the past year, I've been uberconcerned with fitness and getting in shape so my alcohol consumption has dropped significantly.

If I had to guess, in an average month I spend about $40. If I know I'm going to drink, I have drinks at my place before I go out/get picked up (no DWI for me!)... it's a lot more cost-efficient, as then you just go out and maintain, not drink to get drunk.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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$0 just don't really wanna drink.
 

PRMoon

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I spend alot on alcohol. I stock my bar at least once a week with premium vodkas, gins, whiskeys, bourbons, rums, tequilas, etc etc. *Sigh* Again I have to cite my las vegas lifestyle. I enteratian alot of people at my house and my wet dry bar takes a hit at least once a month. I don't know how anybody else lives but out here a nice house, car and good entertainment will bring the stars a little bit close to you.

When I go out I tip out my bartenders very well and that goes a long way as well. I meet new people and get "free" shots. I say "free" because I paid for them several times over on my previous visits and having that money show when it counts is a huge victory for me.

Don't get me wrong though...I work two jobs and make six figures a year in my fair lady vegas. If I was making 30-40K a year and didn't have any growth prospects in site, I'd spend 10 dollars a week on ten high wiskey and have the most bottom of the barrel girls at my house ever week, believe it!
 
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