"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How much a month do you spend on alcohol?

Levex

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Maybe around $80 a month on average. Usually purchases consist of Bud Light, some wine, and some liqueur like Disaronno or Bailey's.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sheeet I just calculated what Ive spent on alco since december and the figure is approaching $1k in about a month and a half.

I was in thailand though so I was partying nearly every night.
 

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I've been fortunate... when I was younger, I spent a buttload on booze. For the past 3 years, I worked in the club scene so I got free booze 24/7. For the past year, I've been uberconcerned with fitness and getting in shape so my alcohol consumption has dropped significantly.

If I had to guess, in an average month I spend about $40. If I know I'm going to drink, I have drinks at my place before I go out/get picked up (no DWI for me!)... it's a lot more cost-efficient, as then you just go out and maintain, not drink to get drunk.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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$0 just don't really wanna drink.
 

PRMoon

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I spend alot on alcohol. I stock my bar at least once a week with premium vodkas, gins, whiskeys, bourbons, rums, tequilas, etc etc. *Sigh* Again I have to cite my las vegas lifestyle. I enteratian alot of people at my house and my wet dry bar takes a hit at least once a month. I don't know how anybody else lives but out here a nice house, car and good entertainment will bring the stars a little bit close to you.

When I go out I tip out my bartenders very well and that goes a long way as well. I meet new people and get "free" shots. I say "free" because I paid for them several times over on my previous visits and having that money show when it counts is a huge victory for me.

Don't get me wrong though...I work two jobs and make six figures a year in my fair lady vegas. If I was making 30-40K a year and didn't have any growth prospects in site, I'd spend 10 dollars a week on ten high wiskey and have the most bottom of the barrel girls at my house ever week, believe it!
 
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