"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
How many times should u text a women on a week?
- Thread starter cabaceira
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Romanemp22
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its not a one shoe fits all,
float in and out of 4 messages here and their. then rinse and repeat 4-6 messages. 4 lines at most
you will message yourself right out of her ***** if not careful.
cabaceira
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plate
Barrister
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Let her initiate 75-80% of the time. I’d keep it more down to this ratio and judge is accordingly and not get caught up so much on total number of texts. She shows high interest - you reciprocate. She almost never reached out and you barely (if at all) reach out to her.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Georgepithyou
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At the start 90% of women won't do the initiating unless she has super high interest.
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He said she was already a plate. I agree with you in the very early phase of dating (like pre-first date). After that, however, I always stick to this ratio and it usually is a good bet.
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cabaceira
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Alright. What about if she isn't a plate yet?
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Then you text to set up a date and leave it there. If she reaches out to you before to talk I would reciprocate and respond accordingly to build rapport before the date. But don’t overdo it.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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I assume you struggle in LTR's
EyeBRollin
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On the contrary.