"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How many times should u text a women on a week?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Depends on what status does she have in your life. Plate vs actual gf/wife - two different worlds.
 
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Let her initiate 75-80% of the time. I’d keep it more down to this ratio and judge is accordingly and not get caught up so much on total number of texts. She shows high interest - you reciprocate. She almost never reached out and you barely (if at all) reach out to her.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Barrister said:
Let her initiate 75-80% of the time. I’d keep it more down to this ratio and judge is accordingly and not get caught up so much on total number of texts. She shows high interest - you reciprocate. She almost never reached out and you barely (if at all) reach out to her.
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At the start 90% of women won't do the initiating unless she has super high interest.
 
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At the start 90% of women won't do the initiating unless she has super high interest.
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He said she was already a plate. I agree with you in the very early phase of dating (like pre-first date). After that, however, I always stick to this ratio and it usually is a good bet.
 
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Barrister said:
He said she was already a plate. I agree with you in the very early phase of dating (like pre-first date). After that, however, I always stick to this ratio and it usually is a good bet.
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Alright. What about if she isn't a plate yet?
 
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Alright. What about if she isn't a plate yet?
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Then you text to set up a date and leave it there. If she reaches out to you before to talk I would reciprocate and respond accordingly to build rapport before the date. But don’t overdo it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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