Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
its not a one shoe fits all,How many times should u text a women on a week?
plateDepends on what status does she have in your life. Plate vs actual gf/wife - two different worlds.
Let her initiate 75-80% of the time. I’d keep it more down to this ratio and judge is accordingly and not get caught up so much on total number of texts. She shows high interest - you reciprocate. She almost never reached out and you barely (if at all) reach out to her.plate
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
At the start 90% of women won't do the initiating unless she has super high interest.Let her initiate 75-80% of the time. I’d keep it more down to this ratio and judge is accordingly and not get caught up so much on total number of texts. She shows high interest - you reciprocate. She almost never reached out and you barely (if at all) reach out to her.
He said she was already a plate. I agree with you in the very early phase of dating (like pre-first date). After that, however, I always stick to this ratio and it usually is a good bet.At the start 90% of women won't do the initiating unless she has super high interest.
Never.How many times should u text a women on a week?
Alright. What about if she isn't a plate yet?He said she was already a plate. I agree with you in the very early phase of dating (like pre-first date). After that, however, I always stick to this ratio and it usually is a good bet.
Then you text to set up a date and leave it there. If she reaches out to you before to talk I would reciprocate and respond accordingly to build rapport before the date. But don’t overdo it.Alright. What about if she isn't a plate yet?
I assume you struggle in LTR'sNever.
I only respond to texts and they are kept to logistics.
On the contrary.I assume you struggle in LTR's