"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How many times have you watched pornography this week?

How many times have you watched pornography this week? (since last Sunday)

  • none

    Votes: 14 36.8%
  • 1-3 times

    Votes: 10 26.3%
  • 3-5 times

    Votes: 2 5.3%
  • 5-7 times

    Votes: 7 18.4%
  • 7-10 times

    Votes: 1 2.6%
  • 10-15 times

    Votes: 1 2.6%
  • 15-20+ times

    Votes: 3 7.9%

  • Total voters
    38

tactic

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Please vote.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I am trying to quit jacking off (someone mentioned lack of drive as a direct result), but its hard, man... very hard. Did it 2ce today :(.

OK, starting today, NO BEATING THE MEAT! ARRRWWW! :D
 

gav

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i've been watching a lot without whacking off to it. apparently it boosts your testosterone.

what do you mean by 'times'?
 

tactic

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If you watched pornography once and then later on you watch it again, that is twice. So it's basically from time to time instead of different pornographies in one time.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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squirrels

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I've gotten down to twice a week.

That seems like a pretty good rhythm for me. Any more is too much, any less and I'd go crazy. LOL
 

comic_relief

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quit watching porn

I am not watching porn anymore because it causes me to whack off and I want a reason to get a girlfriend. Plus a boost of testostorone is a good thing.

And how many times do you watch porn Tactic, crusader of Christains.:D
 
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I can't concentrate on my job if I don't jack off. I try to avoid inanimate sexually exciting things throughout the day.
 

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Re: quit watching porn

Originally posted by baseballDJ
I am not watching porn anymore because it causes me to whack off and I want a reason to get a girlfriend. Plus a boost of testostorone is a good thing.

And how many times do you watch porn Tactic, crusader of Christains.:D
i actually gave a small laugh or giggle at what you said calling me a crusader of Christians.

i do no watch pornography, never will and if i do you know what i will do.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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tactic

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i used to watch it and used to get erections and masterbated from it and did it twice a day.

i haven't masterbated, watched full-lenghted pornography, stare at girl's body fiercly, or act dirty in months but not long ago.
 

rgeere

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Originally posted by tactic
i used to watch it and used to get erections and masterbated from it and did it twice a day.i haven't masterbated, watched full-lenghted pornography, stare at girl's body fiercly, or act dirty in months but not long ago.
That's what I thought. Glad you came out otherwise I would have accused you of being in denial. :D
 

chicksrock

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Its good to watch it every once in a while to remind yourself how to treat them b!tches...

with regards to whacking off....if you prefer doing it to porn...suit yourself....

with regards to frequency of whacking off... try and cut it down. I have read so many posts saying it helps your game....but i was always skeptical....after reading gunwitch I though I would give it a shot
OUTCOME: I feel fvcking horny and will do anything for sex
DOWNSIDE: I can't concentrate on my work either!

but I have read if you control your release for a longer periods of time than just a few days...you can transmute your sexual energy to make you more productive @ your work
 

Silquee Smoove

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Just finished watching a video where some woman puts two hands in another woman's vag while some guy video tapes it.

He goes "Wow" and she is sorta manly-looking.

You can get it off K@z@@

I'm trying to stop watching it myself, simply because it's a waste of time and I'd rather be doing the real thing.

Usually I'll watch random videos off of K@z@@ (careful of the child molestation videos disguised as something else though).

P.S. How come there is no shirt that says "I'd rather be f-ucking"?

You see one for every other "sport".
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dust 2 Dust

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I quit watching porn several months ago. I used to download clips off ***** but I don't do that anymore and there's no way in hell I would ever pay money to watch it.
 

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Porn has never appealed to me. Actually I find it a huge turn off!

I don't enjoy watching prositutes engaged in sexual scenarios. And as far as mainstream porn goes, I can't stand the idea of some sleazy fat cats profitting from my instinctive weaknesses and getting rich off every guy who fails to score with a real woman.

The idea of jerking off to porn is about as appealing to me as scavenging for food from dustbins. It's something you only do when you're desperate.

And for those who think porn is educational, think again. You'll never learn how to please a woman by watching porn videos (aka male fantasies).
 

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The first time i watched it i had to cover my face from the way they were doing it.

the things i saw were really disgusting in act.
 
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